There is girl I'm really interested in right now. She's got a very cute face, nice personality, we share a lot in common all that stuff. Only issue is, she's overweight. She used to be quite thin a few years ago looking at some of her old myspace photos, and she was hot! I saw her once a couple years ago where she was putting on a few pounds, but looked a bit "thick" but nothing bad at all(in fact I prefer thick woman, not fat thick but Kim Kardashian thick). And when I saw her not too long ago, she's now really packing it on.
Now I'm a guy that REALLY believes in being in shape. I work out, I do lots of bike riding, I do martial arts three times a week, I try to watch what I eat and I believe in living an active lifestyle and hate the whole American way of sitting on the counch watching TV all day while eating a bunch of fat processed foods then blaming it on your thyroid or some sh*t because you've become a fatass meanwhile driving up health insurance cost for everybody to cover your added health risk. I'm only mentioning this so you know where I come from.
I'm starting to dig this chic as a person, and I think I could accept the weight she is at, but my fear is what if she becomes bigger? She's in her mid 20s, and women at that age are about as good looking and fit as they're ever going to be. And if they're already letting themselves go at that age, what's going to happen down the line? Have any of you guys, especially you fitness guys ever liked a girl that was overweight and had concerns about that? I'd feel like a real shallow bastard to brush off an otherwise great girl over something like that, but on the other hand, if she did become fatter after we were in a serious relationship, I'd be none too happy about that.
Now I'm a guy that REALLY believes in being in shape. I work out, I do lots of bike riding, I do martial arts three times a week, I try to watch what I eat and I believe in living an active lifestyle and hate the whole American way of sitting on the counch watching TV all day while eating a bunch of fat processed foods then blaming it on your thyroid or some sh*t because you've become a fatass meanwhile driving up health insurance cost for everybody to cover your added health risk. I'm only mentioning this so you know where I come from.
I'm starting to dig this chic as a person, and I think I could accept the weight she is at, but my fear is what if she becomes bigger? She's in her mid 20s, and women at that age are about as good looking and fit as they're ever going to be. And if they're already letting themselves go at that age, what's going to happen down the line? Have any of you guys, especially you fitness guys ever liked a girl that was overweight and had concerns about that? I'd feel like a real shallow bastard to brush off an otherwise great girl over something like that, but on the other hand, if she did become fatter after we were in a serious relationship, I'd be none too happy about that.