lizardfloyd
Don Juan
Ok, here it goes. I met this girl about less than a month ago over at my friends house. It was supposed to be a night of drinking and hanging out. I had been C&F the whole night with this one girl, calling her out on some things, making fun of the music she likes and then in front of everyone she jumped on top of me and started making out with me. I mean I was pretty blown away, being that I had never had any luck at all with a girl period. I was pretty drunk off my ass and some of my friends left to go and get something to eat. Me and her stayed on the couch and made out pretty much the whole time they were gone until they came back.
A week later. Go back over to drink again. Me, my buddy, tha GIRL, and another girl he knows. We drink for a while and then we watch a movie. She gets on top of me and lays down while we watch the movie. We make out and what not. I was about to try and go for 3rd base but got rejected cuz she was on her period. I told her I was going to bed cuz i had to get up early the next morning. She got up with me out of the seat and gave me this long kiss goodnight and said she was gonna stay up and watch the rest of the movie.
Antoher week later. Same stuff happens again. We're outside smoking and she drops her cigarette clinches me and starts making out with me. We come back in. I sit in the recliner and she pulls this huge blanket over both of us and we start makin out again. She even takes her shirt and bra off under the covers. But, can't really do much when the whole party is on the outside of the covers.
OK, now, being a week later my friend calls me up and says she called him and they were talkin and she asks "what's his deal?" refferring to me. He tells me that she really really likes me and wants to try and work on a relationship with me. She said that she felt like she is getting mixed signals from me, but she can't figure me out and it is driving her nuts! (Thanks DJ Forum)
She also told him she didn't want to be a drunken one-time hook-up and that she was lookin for something more with me. I'm honsetly not lookin for a relationship with all the stuff I got going on in my life. I mean, having a girl show that much interest in me in that short amount of time kinda wowed my mind.
So how do I turn her into a FWB??? without all the relationship stuff? Or at the least tell her I'm not lookin for a relationship at all?? I'm afraid she might go psycho or weird on me. I never lead her on, never had sex with her, nor have I really called her. I usually only see her at my friends house when we all get together to drink approx. 1-2 times a week. I mean we barely know each other.
Any help would be appreciated.
A week later. Go back over to drink again. Me, my buddy, tha GIRL, and another girl he knows. We drink for a while and then we watch a movie. She gets on top of me and lays down while we watch the movie. We make out and what not. I was about to try and go for 3rd base but got rejected cuz she was on her period. I told her I was going to bed cuz i had to get up early the next morning. She got up with me out of the seat and gave me this long kiss goodnight and said she was gonna stay up and watch the rest of the movie.
Antoher week later. Same stuff happens again. We're outside smoking and she drops her cigarette clinches me and starts making out with me. We come back in. I sit in the recliner and she pulls this huge blanket over both of us and we start makin out again. She even takes her shirt and bra off under the covers. But, can't really do much when the whole party is on the outside of the covers.
OK, now, being a week later my friend calls me up and says she called him and they were talkin and she asks "what's his deal?" refferring to me. He tells me that she really really likes me and wants to try and work on a relationship with me. She said that she felt like she is getting mixed signals from me, but she can't figure me out and it is driving her nuts! (Thanks DJ Forum)
She also told him she didn't want to be a drunken one-time hook-up and that she was lookin for something more with me. I'm honsetly not lookin for a relationship with all the stuff I got going on in my life. I mean, having a girl show that much interest in me in that short amount of time kinda wowed my mind.
So how do I turn her into a FWB??? without all the relationship stuff? Or at the least tell her I'm not lookin for a relationship at all?? I'm afraid she might go psycho or weird on me. I never lead her on, never had sex with her, nor have I really called her. I usually only see her at my friends house when we all get together to drink approx. 1-2 times a week. I mean we barely know each other.
Any help would be appreciated.
