"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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dilema need help pronto.

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Right...

On New Years Eve I went to my mates party... and this girl i liked turned up...

anyway i was sitting with some of the lads and i looked over and then like 1-2 minutes eye contact so i went in the kitchen for another beer then went and sat next to her

she was talking to me about how she had a headache then she leaned on me and put a blanket thing over both of us...
(so im thinking she is showing some definite signs right?)

anyway i was stroking her leg then i started stroking her p*ssy for about 5minutes ish, then she tells her friends she has a bad headache... (sitting other side of me) and that she is going home, she calls taxi gets up while im stroking her and goes...

now im thinking WHAT THE FCUK

now im just wondering what the fcuk i should do because tomorrow i go back to camp (im in the army)
i sometimes get weekends home but otherwise itl be 2 months till im home

what do you guys think i should do because i really wanna meet with this girl
and also do you think shes into me or??
im clueless.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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please someone i go tomorrow and wont have much internet access
 
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In a hurry to get to the gym but...I think you can still get some play. She never resisted or said "no" to your face. So means she had interest question is how much and if it's enough to let you go further. I'd say something to her friend along the lines of (if you can't talk to other girl directly) "You could be like I'll be here or there this night and we should all hang out again, you and your friend seemed pretty cool" .

Just try and build some rapport with everyone...as soon as one of her buddies detects the "I just want ***** signals" she'll be quick to play mother hen **** blocker extraordinaire:p
 
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Ok, i see where your going with this but im away on base alot and dont reallly get dates that i can get home untill they are quite close...
 
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guys i go in literally hours and im still needing advice
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You missed your chance.
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I think it was more of a case of him screwing his chance up.


Lil hooligan,what the *beep* were you thinking?


She told you she had a HEADACHE,then she put some cover over the two of you and leaned into you.



She said she had a headache,so of course the natural thing to do is a situation like that is to start stroking her p*ssy. :rolleyes:



I take it you've never heard of escalation.


She snuggled up to you,which yes is an IOI,but you should have put your arm around her and drew her closer in to you.



Maybe held her hand and given her a kiss on the neck.


Then if she had be receptive to those things,then moved things a bit farther.



It's messed up that you're leaving tomorrow,but I don't know what type of advice you're looking for to turn this thing around.
 
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Well yeh I put my arm around her and was talking to her for about 20 mins then I put my hand on her leg and escalated... Not getting any signs she wanted me to stop I carried on then the rest as it's been said, but by the time she turned up I was basically smashed so my game was off and just wanting *****, but yeh iv known this girl for while and I would like something serious if possible , have I screwed up enough to the point of no return?
 
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Oh and later on after she left I got with her friend who knows I like the one with headache. So now telling you this I realised u fu*ked up even more... SH*T
 
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the timing is bad. i dont think you've messed it up cause you've known her for a while.

try to meet up when you get back!

maybe she really did have a headache. although i do know foreplay or sex is the best temporary cure for the hangover headache haha


EDIT: i wrote this before i read you got with her friend
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So iv f*cked up big time and made it even worse by getting with her friend

ah sh*t.
 
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