"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dilated Pupils

Salacious D

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Having finished the last part of my Spanish final I left my classroom and went for the cafeteria of my school, which was nearly empty. I sat down near the first few friends of mine I could find, a girl, C, and a senior, E(who's about my [average] height, if it matters). I know that these two are just friends, they're hanging out, killing time. I sit next to E, across from C. I'm not sure if C is actually involved with someone else, a really cool guy that I know and like a great deal, but they do walk around together a lot. The situtation, from my perspective, is this--every time the pair is mentioned people make sure to add that they are not a couple. Anyway...

These two aren't really close knit friends of mine, but I do know them both, I like them both, and I'm fairly certain that unless they're both talented actors (C is actually going to play Miranda in the Tempest, and is, in my opinion, perfect for the part), they both like me as well. We eventually all start playing a game of Hide the Penis, which involves drawing out the most graphic image of a penis that you can, giving that picture to someone else, and then having that person work the said picture into something else. I changed one into a diplodocus, other examples include elephants, tall people with big, round shoes, etcetera. It's a lot of fun.

Background aside,

My sister tells me that C flirts with everyone--it's great having a cool, popular sister in High School--but it seemed to me at least that she was being a bit more physical with me than E, even though it was nothing extreme (like crotch rubbing). There was lots of eye contact, and I eventually got her to engage in a gazing contest with me (staring contest where you can blink but not look away), during which time I mentioned that her pupils were dilated. She then retorted that mine were as well.

Now, for as long as I've known this girl, I've liked her as a friend, never as a real love interest. I'm attracted to her, but I just don't see her that often and I've never really had the impetus to go after her, I guess. There's always been something else on my plate. Excuses aside, I've just never had a thing for this girl. I'd happily start up a relationship with her, if not for the circumstances that I already mentioned--her pseudo-boyfriend who's really cool, who I really like, for example. Anyway, both pairs of eyes were dilated. You know how I feel about her, now my question is, does that mean that she has a kind of equivalent feeling toward me? What do you think?

We're both going to be in the Spring Play, so if I feel like it I may go for her then, because there was an obvious interest in her there. I guess I'm just curious as to your opinions regarding dilated pupils. Thanks for reading,
Ian
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RaMar

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good friends are worth more then far featched possible dates. Thats a lot to gamble on dialated puples.
 

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She isn't exactly a good friend, and for the moment I'm not really gambling anything. I'm just curious as to how much dilated pupils are valued.
 

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Yeah, I forgot to mention, she had a joint hanging out of her mouth. Does that matter?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Salacious D
Yeah, I forgot to mention, she had a joint hanging out of her mouth. Does that matter?
You are kidding, right?
 

Salacious D

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Nope, I'm dead serious. There was also a syringe loaded with some glowing green fluid sticking out of her left arm. I think she forgot to take it out. The skin around it looked kind of sickly, like someone had set it on fire and then just let the fire go out on its own. She's still pretty cool, though.
 

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R3N3GAD3, he's telling the truth. Lots of people openly smoke weed on school grounds.
 
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