"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Difficulty moveing one (nexting)

Bryce556

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I have a great trouble with moveing on to the next girl, This girl I have liked for a while clearly dosent like me. She is so amazing. I am haveing trouble moveing on. For one I can't let go and stop likeing her, and secondly when I look for another girl there is just no one that matches up to her. She just like the perfect girl for me. See my problem. any suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Berlex

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Bryce556 said:
I have a great trouble with moveing on to the next girl, This girl I have liked for a while clearly dosent like me. She is so amazing. I am haveing trouble moveing on. For one I can't let go and stop likeing her, and secondly when I look for another girl there is just no one that matches up to her. She just like the perfect girl for me. See my problem. any suggestions?
Here's a suggestion: learn how to drop the "e" when adding "ing."

-the Grammar Nazi
 

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Sounds like you have the oneitis for her....I know it is difficult because I had a oneitis for a girl but try to move on by moving your interest into other girls and stop all contact with her if you've have any...
just use the rule of that the more you like her the more she won't like you and she clearly doesn't like you so it sounds like you don't have a chance if you've haven't made your intentions with her known...
 

Berlex

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DJ1234 said:
Sounds like you have the oneitis for her....I know it is difficult because I had a oneitis for a girl but try to move on by moving your interest into other girls and stop all contact with her if you've have any...
just use the rule of that the more you like her the more she won't like you and she clearly doesn't like you so it sounds like you don't have a chance if you've haven't made your intentions with her known...
what he said :up:

you're showing way too much interest...flirt with other girls when she's around, laugh, have a good time with them
 

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Bryce556 said:
I have a great trouble with moveing on to the next girl, This girl I have liked for a while clearly dosent like me. She is so amazing. I am haveing trouble moveing on. For one I can't let go and stop likeing her, and secondly when I look for another girl there is just no one that matches up to her. She just like the perfect girl for me. See my problem. any suggestions?
Its probably going to be like that with every girl you've been emotionally tied to. I was in your exact same situation with my last girlfriend.

I would feel the same way that she was the perfect one and no other girl would compare to her. Yeah its true when your emotions get in the way you act like a wuss.

How to get over her? Pretty tough if you ask me, it took me a whole month to get over my last gf but now I wouldn't even discuss about her. Time is a key factor, time will heal this open woond :p

AND...best and faster method is talking to other girls. No of course you wont feel the same way with them until you get emotionally connected with them , but flirting with as many girls as possible will help your male ego and forget about that ***** fast.

Also what helped me forget about her was see only her bad parts. Right now all you see is good things on her and its making it harder for you. believe me when i say NOBODY is perfect and all girls have flaws. Everytime you think about her think only about her flaws instead of the things you like about her.

Good luck I now its a tough one but you will get over her with time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Close to my last problem... I had SUCH a hard time moving on, because I saw her every day, I was in her class, there was nothing I could do about it. I found myself forgetting her on the weekend,

Sunday - "ha I don't need her what was I thinking?!"
Monday - *walks into class* "Wow she's amazing..."

I had a oneitis, which lasted a whole YEAR because of that. Damn near torture.
Yes I saw other girls, yes I was still going with other girls, but even then she was stuck in my mind. Just pray your not in a class with a girl you think is absolutely amazing. If it all goes wrong you'll find yourself in a pit. If they are just around school, you wont have to make so much contact with them and can move on much more easily.
 
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