"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Different types of OLD women

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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biggoal

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2-5 percent before seeing the bed with a date, true. You must be strong and don´t give up, with 10 messages/day + good profile text, you´ll get results, but it can take some time is my experience. Those niche OLD sites, for example for higher educated people, absolutely higher rate. I had 2 dates there, in a short time. It seems a woman who using these sites, is more serious and most of the time also full member, she paid. And I hate OLD where it´s not visible if you are writing to a free member who can not reply to you or to a full member. I also never write to women with a huge wish list, like you must be......and not be......otherwise I don´t answer bleeeeh, she´s thinks she´s already a princess before she even got a date.
Yea, that's BS how you don't know. match is like that. You don't know if it's a free or paid. So you can waste time writing and they never even see it.

Match for 5 bucks a month on top of the paid membership you can get the read message feature that shows you if they read it. If they never read it it's likely they don't have a paid one.

What I hate about OLD you see a chick and message them. Then they don't log on for 3 weeks. Of course when they log on again it's 200 messages back and they will never see it.
 

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With how OLD has gone downhill I have to wonder what it will look like 3 years from now.
 

lifewobluelenses

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With how OLD has gone downhill I have to wonder what it will look like 3 years from now.
Dude, We´ve been trying to help you but you dont seem to grasp anything we are saying.
There is nothing wrong with OLD its just you who dont know how to work it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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