"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Different Political Views w/ a Plate?

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You're on a date - 1st, 2nd, or 3rd - and your plate brings up politics. How do you handle it?

I straight up say, "I don't talk about politics with anyone."

Let's say you get into a conversation with her about various political issues, and she ends up getting angry to the point she no longer wants to see you....

3 things I don't talk about with anyone, especially plates - Politics, Religion, Social Issues
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Idk, they love my blunt unvaxxed ass.

"Hey unicorn, what do you think about trans people?"

me: Slightly autistic vulnerable and highly impressionable people that got led astray. In the 80's they would have gotten perms, in the 90's they would have been bulimic, in the 2000's would have had adhd, and in the 2010 just fell into tumblr troll ideologies.

These are the conversations I live for tbh.
 

Modern Man Advice

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You're on a date - 1st, 2nd, or 3rd - and your plate brings up politics. How do you handle it?

I straight up say, "I don't talk about politics with anyone."

Let's say you get into a conversation with her about various political issues, and she ends up getting angry to the point she no longer wants to see you....

3 things I don't talk about with anyone, especially plates - Politics, Religion, Social Issues
I think you should keep that rule. And I like the simplicity of it, you simply don't talk to plates about politics, etc. Those is your boundaries, if she respects it she is worth your time and energy. If she doesn't, there is the door.

I, personally, don't mind doing it because at the end of the day I am not here to caress egos or walk on eggshells. If someone doesn't like it and feels offended (and in this case the plate decides it's a deal-breaker) then that is their problem, not mine. I am open to having a conversation but we know that will most likely only bring friction/tension unless the other person is mature and intelligent enough to hold discussions with different points of view.

But like I said, I like your simplicity when it comes to plates. If it's someone you are dating or a friend, then avoiding those topics isn't necessarily productive as these are people in your life.



Modern Man Advice
 

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its a nice time to screen her, if she is annoying with extreme view its better to next her, remember your time is sacred, valuable, finite, you sure won't spend it on idiots, and you can bet taking the non talk about it she will think you are shamed with your ideas and will end it anyway, so do yourself a favor and weed the woman and save yourself the time
 

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I have this Monologue Memorized for just that occasion.....



"Well, I believe in the soul... the ****...the *****... the small of a woman's back... the hangin' curveball... high fiber... good scotch... that the novels of Susan Sontag are self-indulgent overrated crap... I believe Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone. I believe there ought to be a Constitutional amendment outlawing Astroturf and the designated hitter. I believe in the sweet spot, soft core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Goodnight."​
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It’s a shvt test. Most people respect your politics as long as you can back it up and aren’t an extremist. As for plates, I am assuming you already smashed. If so, why do you care what happens to her after?
 

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You're on a date - 1st, 2nd, or 3rd - and your plate brings up politics. How do you handle it?

I straight up say, "I don't talk about politics with anyone."

Let's say you get into a conversation with her about various political issues, and she ends up getting angry to the point she no longer wants to see you....

3 things I don't talk about with anyone, especially plates - Politics, Religion, Social Issues
I change the subject. Not interested in political bullsh!t convos
 

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You're on a date - 1st, 2nd, or 3rd - and your plate brings up politics. How do you handle it?

I straight up say, "I don't talk about politics with anyone."

Let's say you get into a conversation with her about various political issues, and she ends up getting angry to the point she no longer wants to see you....

3 things I don't talk about with anyone, especially plates - Politics, Religion, Social Issues
**** those rules, I'll talk about whatever I damn well please. While I never purposely ever steer the conversation into those topics, I won't skirt around them either. I have no interest in dating a SJW/feminist/nihilist/marxist/etc, so the sooner that's out in the open the better.

On another note a lot of women will say their beliefs are important, but will ultimately bend to the belief system of whatever guy they're seeing, if they respect and admire him. Ultimately, I view it is a **** test. Women do not respect a man who identifies with their leftist/feminist causes, especially in the context holding frame.
 

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You're on a date - 1st, 2nd, or 3rd - and your plate brings up politics. How do you handle it?

I straight up say, "I don't talk about politics with anyone."

Let's say you get into a conversation with her about various political issues, and she ends up getting angry to the point she no longer wants to see you....

3 things I don't talk about with anyone, especially plates - Politics, Religion, Social Issues
Just shrug it away. Politics is a shvt test. Not worth your time. No woman is worth talking about deep discussions with. I seldom find guys who can keep up with politics without becoming emotional like children.

DONT.
 

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Try not to talk politics with either a plate or potential girlfriend. It usually doesn't end well.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Try not to talk politics with either a plate or potential girlfriend. It usually doesn't end well.
Yeah, in my experience talking politics, somebody always gets super p!ssed off.
 

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Present yourself as a moderate in all things social and political (or as slightly leaning towards whatever direction she leans or lurches in), and they say you generally don't like to talk about social/poitical things, and steer the conversation in a different direction.

If she*insists* on talking about these things after this, you've got a pain in the ass. Cut bait.

If it's a religious issue, I just say I'm agnostic, believe in a creator, etc and am open minded. If this isn't cool, then you've got either a fundamentalist or an atheist (who ten to be 99% hardcore SJW anyway). Cut bait.

Got to smoke out the crazies.

Imo if you say straight up "I don't talk about politics, etc", she may think you're hiding something.
 
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It just depends. I don't see eye to eye with my gf of almost two years when it comes to politics. If it had come up when we first met, she probably wouldn't have dated me. But aside from Orange Man Bad, her politics are actually mostly aligned with mine.

If the woman is bringing up politics because she's woke then I would take the piss out of her. Woke people are a waste of oxygen. Although ironically this might actually work to make her more attracted to you.
 

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Liberalism = compassion, emotion, unambitious, egalitarian --> feminine qualities
Capitalism/conservatism = ambitious, logical, practical, unemotional, competitive --> masculine qualities

The polarity between liberalism and conservatism is a clear analogy to feminine/masculine polarity.

I am right-leaning and a registered Republican. I am financially solvent. I don't apologize for myself. The majority of liberal women actually find it to be a turn-on.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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