"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Different languages/cultures

Soyoushave

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I was wondering, since this here's all in english, and some of us arent english/american...do these rules apply to other languages/cultures too...

kind of a strange question, but what I mean is:

-in english you can give great compliments (it's a languages that really flows well) while, for instance, Dutch or German is such an unattractive language, that you can't make these compliments...a lot of oneliners sound unbelievable in english, and stupid/lame in dutch/german...

-A lot of moves and oneliners in english sound very lame in dutch...I can't imagine something like that would actually work (partly from what I see in dutch café's and my/friends experience(s))
 

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In my country, we don't rely on one-liners, women tend to welcome an approach as long as the man is confident and not a creep although I suspect things will change as they become more Anglo-american..

I am in the UK right now and have been for several years, and I miss that sort of flirting enviroment very much.

You do have a point in the fact that social one-liners and humour don't translate well, I have found the same is true from Greek to English.
 
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