"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lizardking82

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I will give you a short solution I used on a girl a couple of weeks ago that actually worked:

First time we meet at my place, never met her before, she came straight to my place, model type of body, two heavenly boobs and a tight, wet ****. She started resistance since the minute she entered the room LOL We laid in bed for about 2 hours and a half before the sex happened.

Now, what I think was a turning point are two things: first of all, she was playing with my d1ck over the underwear and while I am about to pull it out of the undies so she can go skin on skin, this girl tells me "no, not yet", but she'd said that two times before already so I playfully tell her "Well, you know, this is my room so I get my d1ck out when I want to" and in that moment, she gets up and acts like she's leaving. I sit in the bed calmly and tell her "OK, you can leave if that's what you want, but you should know you are acting like a stupid *****" + a smile. This is what ticker her nerves hahahahaha and she "decides" not to leave, but to go out in the balcony and smoke a cigarette. I wait for her on the bed, she comes back, we go at it again (see, the girl that "got mad" and "wanted to leave". I need to point out that this girl also told me the sh1t your girl told you, sh1t like "I don't do sex with guys I don't know".

After kissing and touching all over for another half an hour or so, she puts her panties down and I drill that tight, wet and oh so good and heavenly ***** all the way and creampie her, too. She got all loving and sweet and bla bla bla. Now, she disappeared for two weeks after that and there is nothing stable going to happen with her unless it's 1 or 2 times more sex, but I can tell you this: if she has invited you to her place to "have tea", she's not stupid and knows exactly what is going to happen and when she tries to stop that, you playfully try and go about things your own way. She doesn't let you take the panties off? Go on the kissing, kiss her passionately until she gets wet just by the way you kiss and want her. Try to go down again. If she doesn't let you, try again and if she still goes on, just get off the bed/couch/chair or whatever and don't be sad or angry or mad, cause SEE THIS IS WHERE MOST GUYS **** UP and they become bitter and start acting all "oh, you don't wanna give me the ****? You make boy sad, boy angry and cries" LOL

You don't do anything. You should be cool about this although I understand why this would make your blood boil if you're in the beginning. If you're not cool, try your best to fake it. No signs of resentment. She will give in if you play this right.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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So my question is what should I do to flip the script to my advantage? What mistakes I made that led me to this situation?
If you're not in the mood or say 'stop' that's it. But low libido /sex drive is a deal breaker for me. Ltr or fwb, not in the mood means some other girl is.

That's it. Next set. If she's not in the mood, if she doesn't want to ****, you next her. Why? Because she's attempting to negotiate sex. It's not a good frame. If it's a transaction, acquire escorts and hookers. Not the woman you date.

At 3 dates or casual hangs, I next her. Number is lost. She can hit me up but, I don't bother to initiate. I have no time nor patience for low libido.

Then again, I am single at thirty. No wife or gf. Feels good man.
 

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DEEZEDBRAH, sharing your opinion, low sex drive is no-no for me, it is boring on some way.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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DEEZEDBRAH, sharing your opinion, low sex drive is no-no for me, it is boring on some way.
Well, it is convenient that as top form fails her, the good girl shtick is pedaled. Her new salvation is baby rabies. She will lie about the pill. It's completely a game of plausible deniability. She gets kids, extracts resources, and society blames man who was sperm jacked. NBA warned players years ago.

I remember pulling a girl age 18 in Ibiza. Same night bj. Present day, she is married now, and do you think that she swallows? There's more to life then playing to female entitlement. Our laws and society pedal to it.

God forbid wwIII, I will not fight or protect women. Not my problem. In 20 8, it's not your girl. Just your turn.

It's never ending, #nextset!
 

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Again DEEZEDBRAH thanks for sharing your Ibiza experience, I had and having time by time similar experiences :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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