"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Differences between single men and single women...funny stuff

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If you go on POF, you'll see all these women saying things like "so frustrated...every guy I date seems to be a liar etc...." So clearly, these single women are dating. The only reason they are single is that they have really high standards, not because they don't have options.

If you look at the guys, many of them would love to have this problem. Going on tons of dates and not finding the "one". Hell I would love to have this problem! I only go on a date maybe once a month if I'm lucky, whereas even below average women go on multiple dates per week and have guys hitting on them regularly.

Being a woman > Being a man. I would rather be a woman all day, because women have so many options. Being alone in your apartment and fapping to porn is much, much worse than going out with a guy who turns out to be married, or getting hit on by creepy guys at the bar.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My 250 lb female friend told me she has multiple guys online emailing her pics. She picks out the best looking guy with the biggest junk (from the photos received) and invites him over. I've known her for years. She's not making this up.

It is was it is.
 

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Well, I personally wouldn't want to have a period every month or get pregnant, so I don't envy women in the slightest.
 

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Mike32ct said:
My 250 lb female friend told me she has multiple guys online emailing her pics. She picks out the best looking guy with the biggest junk (from the photos received) and invites him over. I've known her for years. She's not making this up.

It is was it is.
That's an image I didn't need in my head. Thanks.lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Only faggots are obsessed with "finding someone".

Your problems are bigger than dating if you have so much free time that all you do is watch porn alone in your apartment.

The modern faggot beta male is just as obsessed with "relationships" as women (sometimes more so). So instead of getting an education, making friends, making money, having hobbies, spinning plates and enjoying his freedom.. he sits around crying over how he is lonely and has no Disney princess to cuddle with and pedestalize.

Real faggot stuff. Just gay. :down:
 

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skinnyguy said:
If you go on POF, you'll see all these women saying things like "so frustrated...every guy I date seems to be a liar etc...." So clearly, these single women are dating. The only reason they are single is that they have really high standards, not because they don't have options.

If you look at the guys, many of them would love to have this problem. Going on tons of dates and not finding the "one". Hell I would love to have this problem! I only go on a date maybe once a month if I'm lucky, whereas even below average women go on multiple dates per week and have guys hitting on them regularly.

Being a woman > Being a man. I would rather be a woman all day, because women have so many options. Being alone in your apartment and fapping to porn is much, much worse than going out with a guy who turns out to be married, or getting hit on by creepy guys at the bar.
If your main source of finding women is "POF" you have bigger issues OP

Nothing new here, women spin plates...whowouldathunkit

Men should spin plates as well. If you're only going on one date a month your doing it wrong.

And also that part I highlited makes you sound gay son

Trolls gonna troll I guess
 

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Originally Posted by skinnyguy

Being a woman > Being a man. I would rather be a woman all day, because women have so many options. Being alone in your apartment and fapping to porn is much, much worse than going out with a guy who turns out to be married, or getting hit on by creepy guys at the bar


Some of the posts on here so disturbing. :nervous:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hmmmm... are you gonna become one of those "creepy" guys who starts making female profiles on dating websites - then posting the results for everyone to see? Going all psychotic over how unfair it is, and how you want all that ****, too... Or maybe BECOMING a woman, since you seem to indicate that you'd rather be one anyway? Gotta pull a PHM on this one, and call you a raging faggot. :cheer:
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Only faggots are obsessed with "finding someone".

Your problems are bigger than dating if you have so much free time that all you do is watch porn alone in your apartment.

The modern faggot beta male is just as obsessed with "relationships" as women (sometimes more so). So instead of getting an education, making friends, making money, having hobbies, spinning plates and enjoying his freedom.. he sits around crying over how he is lonely and has no Disney princess to cuddle with and pedestalize.

Real faggot stuff. Just gay. :down:
They might as well make us guys cyborgs or robots so we don't have feelings or crave companionship anymore
 

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Mike32ct said:
My 250 lb female friend told me she has multiple guys online emailing her pics. She picks out the best looking guy with the biggest junk (from the photos received) and invites him over. I've known her for years. She's not making this up.

It is was it is.
Ahahaha, so funny. Nice one Mike (I do believe in you just to be clear)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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floydb25 said:
Hmmmm... are you gonna become one of those "creepy" guys who starts making female profiles on dating websites - then posting the results for everyone to see? Going all psychotic over how unfair it is, and how you want all that ****, too... Or maybe BECOMING a woman, since you seem to indicate that you'd rather be one anyway? Gotta pull a PHM on this one, and call you a raging faggot. :cheer:
Um. I actually did this once. I found it quite useful to see what kind of messages women were getting and what my competition was like.

I was pleasantly surprised by the amount of **** most guys will say to a woman.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Only faggots are obsessed with "finding someone".

Your problems are bigger than dating if you have so much free time that all you do is watch porn alone in your apartment.

The modern faggot beta male is just as obsessed with "relationships" as women (sometimes more so). So instead of getting an education, making friends, making money, having hobbies, spinning plates and enjoying his freedom.. he sits around crying over how he is lonely and has no Disney princess to cuddle with and pedestalize.

Real faggot stuff. Just gay. :down:
So basically, any guy who goes after women is a beta faggot. Wouldn't that make you the biggest beta fag on this forum? You seem to spent a lot of time trying to "spin plates".
 

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skinnyguy said:
So basically, any guy who goes after women is a beta faggot. Wouldn't that make you the biggest beta fag on this forum? You seem to spent a lot of time trying to "spin plates".
Men should absolutely go after women. We need them for sex, and to help raise our offspring.

My point is men should never make women #1. Only a man with dirt low value makes women his only life goal.

Any man who is miserable without some kind of emotional bond with a woman is a faggot.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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