"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Differences between single men and single women...funny stuff

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If you go on POF, you'll see all these women saying things like "so frustrated...every guy I date seems to be a liar etc...." So clearly, these single women are dating. The only reason they are single is that they have really high standards, not because they don't have options.

If you look at the guys, many of them would love to have this problem. Going on tons of dates and not finding the "one". Hell I would love to have this problem! I only go on a date maybe once a month if I'm lucky, whereas even below average women go on multiple dates per week and have guys hitting on them regularly.

Being a woman > Being a man. I would rather be a woman all day, because women have so many options. Being alone in your apartment and fapping to porn is much, much worse than going out with a guy who turns out to be married, or getting hit on by creepy guys at the bar.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My 250 lb female friend told me she has multiple guys online emailing her pics. She picks out the best looking guy with the biggest junk (from the photos received) and invites him over. I've known her for years. She's not making this up.

It is was it is.
 

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Well, I personally wouldn't want to have a period every month or get pregnant, so I don't envy women in the slightest.
 

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Mike32ct said:
My 250 lb female friend told me she has multiple guys online emailing her pics. She picks out the best looking guy with the biggest junk (from the photos received) and invites him over. I've known her for years. She's not making this up.

It is was it is.
That's an image I didn't need in my head. Thanks.lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Only faggots are obsessed with "finding someone".

Your problems are bigger than dating if you have so much free time that all you do is watch porn alone in your apartment.

The modern faggot beta male is just as obsessed with "relationships" as women (sometimes more so). So instead of getting an education, making friends, making money, having hobbies, spinning plates and enjoying his freedom.. he sits around crying over how he is lonely and has no Disney princess to cuddle with and pedestalize.

Real faggot stuff. Just gay. :down:
 

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skinnyguy said:
If you go on POF, you'll see all these women saying things like "so frustrated...every guy I date seems to be a liar etc...." So clearly, these single women are dating. The only reason they are single is that they have really high standards, not because they don't have options.

If you look at the guys, many of them would love to have this problem. Going on tons of dates and not finding the "one". Hell I would love to have this problem! I only go on a date maybe once a month if I'm lucky, whereas even below average women go on multiple dates per week and have guys hitting on them regularly.

Being a woman > Being a man. I would rather be a woman all day, because women have so many options. Being alone in your apartment and fapping to porn is much, much worse than going out with a guy who turns out to be married, or getting hit on by creepy guys at the bar.
If your main source of finding women is "POF" you have bigger issues OP

Nothing new here, women spin plates...whowouldathunkit

Men should spin plates as well. If you're only going on one date a month your doing it wrong.

And also that part I highlited makes you sound gay son

Trolls gonna troll I guess
 

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Originally Posted by skinnyguy

Being a woman > Being a man. I would rather be a woman all day, because women have so many options. Being alone in your apartment and fapping to porn is much, much worse than going out with a guy who turns out to be married, or getting hit on by creepy guys at the bar


Some of the posts on here so disturbing. :nervous:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hmmmm... are you gonna become one of those "creepy" guys who starts making female profiles on dating websites - then posting the results for everyone to see? Going all psychotic over how unfair it is, and how you want all that ****, too... Or maybe BECOMING a woman, since you seem to indicate that you'd rather be one anyway? Gotta pull a PHM on this one, and call you a raging faggot. :cheer:
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Only faggots are obsessed with "finding someone".

Your problems are bigger than dating if you have so much free time that all you do is watch porn alone in your apartment.

The modern faggot beta male is just as obsessed with "relationships" as women (sometimes more so). So instead of getting an education, making friends, making money, having hobbies, spinning plates and enjoying his freedom.. he sits around crying over how he is lonely and has no Disney princess to cuddle with and pedestalize.

Real faggot stuff. Just gay. :down:
They might as well make us guys cyborgs or robots so we don't have feelings or crave companionship anymore
 

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Mike32ct said:
My 250 lb female friend told me she has multiple guys online emailing her pics. She picks out the best looking guy with the biggest junk (from the photos received) and invites him over. I've known her for years. She's not making this up.

It is was it is.
Ahahaha, so funny. Nice one Mike (I do believe in you just to be clear)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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floydb25 said:
Hmmmm... are you gonna become one of those "creepy" guys who starts making female profiles on dating websites - then posting the results for everyone to see? Going all psychotic over how unfair it is, and how you want all that ****, too... Or maybe BECOMING a woman, since you seem to indicate that you'd rather be one anyway? Gotta pull a PHM on this one, and call you a raging faggot. :cheer:
Um. I actually did this once. I found it quite useful to see what kind of messages women were getting and what my competition was like.

I was pleasantly surprised by the amount of **** most guys will say to a woman.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Only faggots are obsessed with "finding someone".

Your problems are bigger than dating if you have so much free time that all you do is watch porn alone in your apartment.

The modern faggot beta male is just as obsessed with "relationships" as women (sometimes more so). So instead of getting an education, making friends, making money, having hobbies, spinning plates and enjoying his freedom.. he sits around crying over how he is lonely and has no Disney princess to cuddle with and pedestalize.

Real faggot stuff. Just gay. :down:
So basically, any guy who goes after women is a beta faggot. Wouldn't that make you the biggest beta fag on this forum? You seem to spent a lot of time trying to "spin plates".
 

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skinnyguy said:
So basically, any guy who goes after women is a beta faggot. Wouldn't that make you the biggest beta fag on this forum? You seem to spent a lot of time trying to "spin plates".
Men should absolutely go after women. We need them for sex, and to help raise our offspring.

My point is men should never make women #1. Only a man with dirt low value makes women his only life goal.

Any man who is miserable without some kind of emotional bond with a woman is a faggot.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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