Difference between pursuing and chasing

flowtheory

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There has been mention of these terms in multiple threads I’ve read. Pursuing being the more optimal. Figured I’d ask the board to see what the definitions are and the differences.
 

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Pursuing is based on positive signals from a woman (IOIs, verbal/non-verbal)

Going after women w/o any positive signals = chasing.
Pretty much sums it up.

Women do not necessarily play "hard to get". They do however shyte test and ensure that you respect them.

You can always identify if you're chasing by stopping any and all communication. She will either reach out and initiate or she will be gone.

Pursuing= Leading.

Chasing= trying to sell a woman with low interest on why she should date you or begging.

Anything more than me initiating more than half the time early on leads to me disappearing and pumping the brakes. She can start doing some work or its deuces.
 

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There has been mention of these terms in multiple threads I’ve read. Pursuing being the more optimal. Figured I’d ask the board to see what the definitions are and the differences.
In my opinion we're splitting hairs.

Pursuing-chasing-initiating. Do this repeatedly and consistently, and eventually, you will have a woman (or, in my case, women).
 

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