flowtheory
Master Don Juan
There has been mention of these terms in multiple threads I’ve read. Pursuing being the more optimal. Figured I’d ask the board to see what the definitions are and the differences.
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Difference between pursuing and chasing
- Thread starter flowtheory
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Pretty much sums it up.
Women do not necessarily play "hard to get". They do however shyte test and ensure that you respect them.
You can always identify if you're chasing by stopping any and all communication. She will either reach out and initiate or she will be gone.
Pursuing= Leading.
Chasing= trying to sell a woman with low interest on why she should date you or begging.
Anything more than me initiating more than half the time early on leads to me disappearing and pumping the brakes. She can start doing some work or its deuces.