"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Difference between number close and MSN close?

Canadien

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Ok, so everybody is saying get the damn number, but what about MSN? Would MSN be worthless?

I live on my computer and am easilly accesible, so why shouldn't I get girls MSN? What good is the number if I am just looking to be social, my plan are about finding girls to go participate in fun activities, and be accessible, so wouldn't MSN make more sense?

So far I am interested in getting girls facebook and MSN, is this completely offbeat? Why is this wrong?

Problem for me is I am not a phone talking person, I talk a lot but I need to see the other person in real time when talking, so is it really bad if I use MSN?

How different results could I get from MSN? Would there be reactional change?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CrunchyNut

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A phone is much more personal. So much is said in your tone of voice that cannot be transmitted on MSN. It is not 100% necessary, but talking is always better. You wouldnt get as good results from MSN. Have you ever noticed that if you want to apologize to or cancel on somebody how much harder it is in person or over the phone than it is via the internet? Emailing a tutor and saying "my essay is going to be late" is so much easier than telling them this in person. By not talking to girls on the phone, you make it easier for them to say no.
 

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one of my friends at a party once asked a girl for her msn a few times and finally she told him to FCK OFF! and he went home. poor fella.
 

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probably the majority of girls don't even use msn.

At least, I don't use it anymore.
 

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Remember. If she is interested, she shouldn't say no to any way you go about closing her. Remember that. It will save your ass, your time, your feelings countless more times then you will ever imagine.

Effectiveness between phone and msn. Get both.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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