"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Difference between number close and MSN close?

Canadien

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Ok, so everybody is saying get the damn number, but what about MSN? Would MSN be worthless?

I live on my computer and am easilly accesible, so why shouldn't I get girls MSN? What good is the number if I am just looking to be social, my plan are about finding girls to go participate in fun activities, and be accessible, so wouldn't MSN make more sense?

So far I am interested in getting girls facebook and MSN, is this completely offbeat? Why is this wrong?

Problem for me is I am not a phone talking person, I talk a lot but I need to see the other person in real time when talking, so is it really bad if I use MSN?

How different results could I get from MSN? Would there be reactional change?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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CrunchyNut

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A phone is much more personal. So much is said in your tone of voice that cannot be transmitted on MSN. It is not 100% necessary, but talking is always better. You wouldnt get as good results from MSN. Have you ever noticed that if you want to apologize to or cancel on somebody how much harder it is in person or over the phone than it is via the internet? Emailing a tutor and saying "my essay is going to be late" is so much easier than telling them this in person. By not talking to girls on the phone, you make it easier for them to say no.
 

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one of my friends at a party once asked a girl for her msn a few times and finally she told him to FCK OFF! and he went home. poor fella.
 

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probably the majority of girls don't even use msn.

At least, I don't use it anymore.
 

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Remember. If she is interested, she shouldn't say no to any way you go about closing her. Remember that. It will save your ass, your time, your feelings countless more times then you will ever imagine.

Effectiveness between phone and msn. Get both.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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