“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Difference Between Friendliness and Flirtiness

evesman

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I have a really hard time distinguishing the two. When girls you've never met or seen before, suddenly look you right in the eye and give you a big smile, how can I tell if she is just being polite and friendly, vs. being horny for you?

I can tell if it happens repeatedly, but not if it's the first time. Advice?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't think its usually possible to tell. I guess it's best to always ASSUME she's attracted - make some moves and see how she reacts.
 

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Worship is right. It's best to always assume she is attracted.

Other than that, no doubt you can tell if the smile is genuine. A waitress for example has a professional smile. It's been taught to her by her boss. She is dependand on customers tips so she'll do her best to be friendly and polite to all customers. Or at least they should be..

There will be more than friendlyness if she smiles at you for just an instance more. Might be less than a tenth of a second. Key is you would have to feel it.
This doesn't mean a girl that gives you a quick smile and then almost embarrassedly looks away is not interested. She might even have a major crush on you.

Either way, if a girl smiles, she is open. Go for it.
 

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I have a hard time with this one too. Nice Guy wouldn't want to bother the poor working girl. I think the more aggresive out look should be smile, hi's, and stuff is game on. Remember the poor girl could be very nerious too.

Think of it this way, what is too far. Going in every day after she has said no and asking her out? Following her home? :flowers:

Take the chance, customers ask her out every day.
 
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worship said:
I don't think its usually possible to tell. I guess it's best to always ASSUME she's attracted - make some moves and see how she reacts.
Exactly, assume attraction and go for it, you don't need permission to see if she's interested or not, go bust a move.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah, these are girls who are not working as waitresses or anything. Just walking down the street, and some are employees at my company or at nearby companies.
 

I'm in the Mood

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If you don't know them, they're saying "Hey, approach me."
If you've known them awhile, it means "Hey, talk to me."

The ones you don't know are most likely not horny, however flirtatious and giving you the green light to approach.

Man if they're good looking, go ahead. People generally don't smile at strangers and ask if they can be friends.
 

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If they're being friendly, I'll be friendly back! What a novel idea! I'm so shy...
 

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dude lol i have the same problem in tellin if they are friendly or want to be aproached. i work at a rite aid as a cashier and im guessin they are bein nice but i see alot of girls lookin at me and smiling or lookin at me period. im hoping that they think im good lookin cuz the alternative is they think im mentally challenged... lol
 

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I found this:

Indicators of Interest (IOIs) could be verbal or non-verbal

Example non-verbal IOIs are:

* In a pub, a stranger chick locks EC with you
* In public environments (everyday places), a stranger chick locks EC with you, keeps looking, smiles
* Lots of EC from her, or solid EC
* She has "brightly" eyes looking at you, and "that" interested look
* She starts playing with her hair (looking at you interested), bite lips or lick lips
* She shows you her leg while stretching her ankle
* She touches her breast or necklace.
* She leans towards you
* She makes kino on you/reciprocates kino (also known as reverse-kino?)
* You hold her hand and she squeezes back
* In a party, she keeps on "appearing" close to you or puts herself in a place where it is obvious you can see her (this is also known as an AI, an Approach Invitation)

http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/fswiki.cgi?Indicators_Of_Interest
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It happened again today at the gym. There was this fine girl with a tan and amazing body. When we go to the gym, there's a line for towels and I was right behind her. After she gets her towel, instead of walking off, she turns around, and just stares into my eyes for several seconds. Almost glaring. Then she walks off. She looked hypnotized, riveted. It almost scared me.

I didn't work up the nerve to follow up. But I think these are good signs nonetheless.
 
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