"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Difference between approaching 7's and 8's, and 9's and 10's?

milrenkb

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Somethings been puzzling me latley. My range in terms of the girls I go out with fall into that 7-9 range. However I've noticed that when I use the C&F style on the 7's and 8's they become cold and distant while the 9's seem to just eat it up. On the other hand when I use less C&F on the 7's and 8's and even go about being more open with telegraphing my IOI's I get a much more desireable reatction.

I'd really like someone to elaborate on this before I head out tonight. So with that said.....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what does C&F mean? Cute and Furry by any chance? :crackup:

You will never learn from this board something that works 100% of the time, its an art, everybody has their own strengths and if something is not working for you, don't use it just because 90% of some forum members tell you to do so.
 

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vp171s said:
You will never learn from this board something that works 100% of the time, its an art, everybody has their own strengths and if something is not working for you, don't use it just because 90% of some forum members tell you to do so.
I agree with that, but I'm just amazed by how different the response is between the two groups (for lack of a better word).
 

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milrenkb said:
I agree with that, but I'm just amazed by how different the response is between the two groups (for lack of a better word).
Don't question something that works for you. You might ruin the magic by digging through the details. Just be happy you've developed a double approach.
 

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I'm not really cold-approaching yet, but I have incorporated some ****Y & FUNNY into my regular conversations with women.

And yes... it leaves most 6-7's cold. Anything from there up - for me - it works pretty good on.

The 10's, however, seem to be onto it. I think they've seen it all by this point... :(
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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milrenkb said:
Somethings been puzzling me latley. My range in terms of the girls I go out with fall into that 7-9 range. However I've noticed that when I use the C&F style on the 7's and 8's they become cold and distant while the 9's seem to just eat it up. On the other hand when I use less C&F on the 7's and 8's and even go about being more open with telegraphing my IOI's I get a much more desireable reatction.

I'd really like someone to elaborate on this before I head out tonight. So with that said.....
The less attractive ones naturally have lower self esteem- be more sensitive with them:D
 
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It's nothing man, mostly it's the vibe you give off.

You get the chicks because of your alpha male vibe, you've already got her, why use ****y funny? Hell you've knocked Mike Tyson out, he's done, go get your belt, why still stand there in a boxing position...he's done.

These little don juan techniques are not what gets women. Its your behavior. The 9's that laughed (and what's the difference bet a 7-9 but your own opinion, haha, I might think the 7-8 was your 9, lol), the 9's that laughed probably did so out of "okay?" Not like it was really funny or anything. Stop using these techniques, you don't need them.
Take the training wheels off your bike now you know how to ride.
 

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the 9's that laughed probably did so out of "okay?" Not like it was really funny or anything.....???

if your getting that reaction then it wasnt funny
 

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milrenkb said:
Somethings been puzzling me latley. My range in terms of the girls I go out with fall into that 7-9 range. However I've noticed that when I use the C&F style on the 7's and 8's they become cold and distant while the 9's seem to just eat it up. On the other hand when I use less C&F on the 7's and 8's and even go about being more open with telegraphing my IOI's I get a much more desireable reatction.

I'd really like someone to elaborate on this before I head out tonight. So with that said.....
The majority of hot babe 9's+ have high self esteem and can afford a knock or two

The majority below 9 have lower self esteem and its like kicking them when there down

I posted something about this to do with negs a few weeks a go
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Doggystyle said:
I posted something about this to do with negs a few weeks a go
I'd like to follow up on that. Can you provide a link?
 
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