“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Difference between approaching 7's and 8's, and 9's and 10's?

milrenkb

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Somethings been puzzling me latley. My range in terms of the girls I go out with fall into that 7-9 range. However I've noticed that when I use the C&F style on the 7's and 8's they become cold and distant while the 9's seem to just eat it up. On the other hand when I use less C&F on the 7's and 8's and even go about being more open with telegraphing my IOI's I get a much more desireable reatction.

I'd really like someone to elaborate on this before I head out tonight. So with that said.....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what does C&F mean? Cute and Furry by any chance? :crackup:

You will never learn from this board something that works 100% of the time, its an art, everybody has their own strengths and if something is not working for you, don't use it just because 90% of some forum members tell you to do so.
 

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vp171s said:
You will never learn from this board something that works 100% of the time, its an art, everybody has their own strengths and if something is not working for you, don't use it just because 90% of some forum members tell you to do so.
I agree with that, but I'm just amazed by how different the response is between the two groups (for lack of a better word).
 

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milrenkb said:
I agree with that, but I'm just amazed by how different the response is between the two groups (for lack of a better word).
Don't question something that works for you. You might ruin the magic by digging through the details. Just be happy you've developed a double approach.
 

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I'm not really cold-approaching yet, but I have incorporated some ****Y & FUNNY into my regular conversations with women.

And yes... it leaves most 6-7's cold. Anything from there up - for me - it works pretty good on.

The 10's, however, seem to be onto it. I think they've seen it all by this point... :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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milrenkb said:
Somethings been puzzling me latley. My range in terms of the girls I go out with fall into that 7-9 range. However I've noticed that when I use the C&F style on the 7's and 8's they become cold and distant while the 9's seem to just eat it up. On the other hand when I use less C&F on the 7's and 8's and even go about being more open with telegraphing my IOI's I get a much more desireable reatction.

I'd really like someone to elaborate on this before I head out tonight. So with that said.....
The less attractive ones naturally have lower self esteem- be more sensitive with them:D
 
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It's nothing man, mostly it's the vibe you give off.

You get the chicks because of your alpha male vibe, you've already got her, why use ****y funny? Hell you've knocked Mike Tyson out, he's done, go get your belt, why still stand there in a boxing position...he's done.

These little don juan techniques are not what gets women. Its your behavior. The 9's that laughed (and what's the difference bet a 7-9 but your own opinion, haha, I might think the 7-8 was your 9, lol), the 9's that laughed probably did so out of "okay?" Not like it was really funny or anything. Stop using these techniques, you don't need them.
Take the training wheels off your bike now you know how to ride.
 

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the 9's that laughed probably did so out of "okay?" Not like it was really funny or anything.....???

if your getting that reaction then it wasnt funny
 

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milrenkb said:
Somethings been puzzling me latley. My range in terms of the girls I go out with fall into that 7-9 range. However I've noticed that when I use the C&F style on the 7's and 8's they become cold and distant while the 9's seem to just eat it up. On the other hand when I use less C&F on the 7's and 8's and even go about being more open with telegraphing my IOI's I get a much more desireable reatction.

I'd really like someone to elaborate on this before I head out tonight. So with that said.....
The majority of hot babe 9's+ have high self esteem and can afford a knock or two

The majority below 9 have lower self esteem and its like kicking them when there down

I posted something about this to do with negs a few weeks a go
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Doggystyle said:
I posted something about this to do with negs a few weeks a go
I'd like to follow up on that. Can you provide a link?
 
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