"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Difference between 18 and 23 year olds...

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Anyone know of any general key factors between the average 18 year old and a 23 year old female... What they want, entertainment, etc...

I have a general idea, I just want to clearify as I am 21 dating an older girl for the first time. She's just 23 but it seems like the game is so differnt... Cards I usually play don't really work...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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23 is older ?? LoL

23 is still party-mode... nothing different until you dab into 25+ category


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hmmm

well she's about 4 to 5 years older than the girls I normally date... So that's why I'm asking. My ****y cards didn't work, I'm having to be super out going and funny... I guess I'll keep adapting to the challenge.

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ive been with girls 18-25

18-20 are like little girls they wanna party but they cant get into the places the 21-25 girls can get into... its easier to tuck the 18-20 yr olds in bed and go out with the boys...

18-20 bad... yes but easier to manipulate, they are naive and in experienced you can get away with ALOT

21-25 dont expect anything serious, even if they think they want a LTR they dont, they wanna party, they will stop for awhile but then full on party mode again with all there single girls....

27+ they are looking for something serious becaues they all wanna have babies before 30 the clock is ticking

anything over 30 is damaged goods, from what ive seen, they get very bitter, not all but some. They missed the boat, partied too long or didnt settle and want the world....

ive had alot of fun with the 18-20... so easy
 

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21-25 dont expect anything serious, even if they think they want a LTR they dont, they wanna party, they will stop for awhile but then full on party mode again with all there single girls....
^ ^ Will agree here, that's been my experience...


IMO don't waste time under 20, very annoying... 24-27 my favorite group


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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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