"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Difference between 18 and 23 year olds...

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Anyone know of any general key factors between the average 18 year old and a 23 year old female... What they want, entertainment, etc...

I have a general idea, I just want to clearify as I am 21 dating an older girl for the first time. She's just 23 but it seems like the game is so differnt... Cards I usually play don't really work...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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23 is older ?? LoL

23 is still party-mode... nothing different until you dab into 25+ category


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hmmm

well she's about 4 to 5 years older than the girls I normally date... So that's why I'm asking. My ****y cards didn't work, I'm having to be super out going and funny... I guess I'll keep adapting to the challenge.

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ive been with girls 18-25

18-20 are like little girls they wanna party but they cant get into the places the 21-25 girls can get into... its easier to tuck the 18-20 yr olds in bed and go out with the boys...

18-20 bad... yes but easier to manipulate, they are naive and in experienced you can get away with ALOT

21-25 dont expect anything serious, even if they think they want a LTR they dont, they wanna party, they will stop for awhile but then full on party mode again with all there single girls....

27+ they are looking for something serious becaues they all wanna have babies before 30 the clock is ticking

anything over 30 is damaged goods, from what ive seen, they get very bitter, not all but some. They missed the boat, partied too long or didnt settle and want the world....

ive had alot of fun with the 18-20... so easy
 

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21-25 dont expect anything serious, even if they think they want a LTR they dont, they wanna party, they will stop for awhile but then full on party mode again with all there single girls....
^ ^ Will agree here, that's been my experience...


IMO don't waste time under 20, very annoying... 24-27 my favorite group


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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