"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hi guys,

My grampa used to tell me like he was an general in the army or something: "You never give up, when you do i'll shoot you myself...". I never did(I was to scare to give up :D, but later that just became part of me, because i dont like losing ;) so thanks gramps), but what happens if it just wont work...

I got this girl, not that i'm obsesed with her or anything, but i wanna hold myself to my grampa's words, so i need to know this girl :D . The bad part is i freeze up :( , and the more i try to go over to her and say hi, the more scared i get.

Its just unbelieveable because i'm practacly sure she's interrested too (every time she walks by she looks me straight in the eyes :p, thats a good sign right :confused: :D ).

Anybody know how I might be able to unfreeze and just make a move?

Ciao mates
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
if you're so sure she's interested, why are u scared? interested girls dont reject u. go for it.
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Exactly

If she is interested, your wasting time not asking her out. if you dont make a move she will eventually lose interest.
 
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buddy..ITS ALL ABOUT CONFIDENCE

your the man!!!! your the king in your own world..

why be scared... WHY are u scared of a 5'2 110 pound girl

its what YOu want to accomplish

you ever heard the saying.. sometimes you have to go get what is yours

go get her

if you dont want to give up.. how can u when you wont even give a try?

The worse she can say is NO... BIG F***ING DEAL... i can say no all the time. so can you!

If you want to get with her... be real with yourself... screw all the pick up lines... just walk up to her... and chat

be like hey howz it going.. then start from there..

if u cant think of what to talk...
then think of her as a guy friend... talk to her like how u talk to ur guy friends...

always talk about light stuff, ignore the LTR stuff

but the main part is you have to build up confidence...

why think about what you gonna do when you can just WALK UP and do it??

good luck with you and post up your process
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
if you're so sure she's interested, why are u scared? interested girls dont reject u. go for it.
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Because hes putting too much pressure on himself to get her. His mindset is...if i dont do it then boom...game over...Just relax and have a normal convo with her.
 
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