"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi guys,

My grampa used to tell me like he was an general in the army or something: "You never give up, when you do i'll shoot you myself...". I never did(I was to scare to give up :D, but later that just became part of me, because i dont like losing ;) so thanks gramps), but what happens if it just wont work...

I got this girl, not that i'm obsesed with her or anything, but i wanna hold myself to my grampa's words, so i need to know this girl :D . The bad part is i freeze up :( , and the more i try to go over to her and say hi, the more scared i get.

Its just unbelieveable because i'm practacly sure she's interrested too (every time she walks by she looks me straight in the eyes :p, thats a good sign right :confused: :D ).

Anybody know how I might be able to unfreeze and just make a move?

Ciao mates
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
if you're so sure she's interested, why are u scared? interested girls dont reject u. go for it.
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Exactly

If she is interested, your wasting time not asking her out. if you dont make a move she will eventually lose interest.
 
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buddy..ITS ALL ABOUT CONFIDENCE

your the man!!!! your the king in your own world..

why be scared... WHY are u scared of a 5'2 110 pound girl

its what YOu want to accomplish

you ever heard the saying.. sometimes you have to go get what is yours

go get her

if you dont want to give up.. how can u when you wont even give a try?

The worse she can say is NO... BIG F***ING DEAL... i can say no all the time. so can you!

If you want to get with her... be real with yourself... screw all the pick up lines... just walk up to her... and chat

be like hey howz it going.. then start from there..

if u cant think of what to talk...
then think of her as a guy friend... talk to her like how u talk to ur guy friends...

always talk about light stuff, ignore the LTR stuff

but the main part is you have to build up confidence...

why think about what you gonna do when you can just WALK UP and do it??

good luck with you and post up your process
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
if you're so sure she's interested, why are u scared? interested girls dont reject u. go for it.
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Because hes putting too much pressure on himself to get her. His mindset is...if i dont do it then boom...game over...Just relax and have a normal convo with her.
 
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