Die trying?

[Credos]

Hi guys,

My grampa used to tell me like he was an general in the army or something: "You never give up, when you do i'll shoot you myself...". I never did(I was to scare to give up , but later that just became part of me, because i dont like losing so thanks gramps), but what happens if it just wont work...

I got this girl, not that i'm obsesed with her or anything, but i wanna hold myself to my grampa's words, so i need to know this girl . The bad part is i freeze up , and the more i try to go over to her and say hi, the more scared i get.

Its just unbelieveable because i'm practacly sure she's interrested too (every time she walks by she looks me straight in the eyes , thats a good sign right ).

Anybody know how I might be able to unfreeze and just make a move?

Ciao mates
:rockon:

 

[Credos]

any response would be great

 

[Ace of Flames]

if you're so sure she's interested, why are u scared? interested girls dont reject u. go for it.

 

[KaminoSS]

Originally posted by Ace of Flames
if you're so sure she's interested, why are u scared? interested girls dont reject u. go for it.

Exactly

If she is interested, your wasting time not asking her out. if you dont make a move she will eventually lose interest.

 

[sexy_kuta]

buddy..ITS ALL ABOUT CONFIDENCE

your the man!!!! your the king in your own world..

why be scared... WHY are u scared of a 5'2 110 pound girl

its what YOu want to accomplish

you ever heard the saying.. sometimes you have to go get what is yours

go get her

if you dont want to give up.. how can u when you wont even give a try?

The worse she can say is NO... BIG F***ING DEAL... i can say no all the time. so can you!

If you want to get with her... be real with yourself... screw all the pick up lines... just walk up to her... and chat

be like hey howz it going.. then start from there..

if u cant think of what to talk...
then think of her as a guy friend... talk to her like how u talk to ur guy friends...

always talk about light stuff, ignore the LTR stuff

but the main part is you have to build up confidence...

why think about what you gonna do when you can just WALK UP and do it??

good luck with you and post up your process

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by Ace of Flames
if you're so sure she's interested, why are u scared? interested girls dont reject u. go for it.

Because hes putting too much pressure on himself to get her. His mindset is...if i dont do it then boom...game over...Just relax and have a normal convo with her.