"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Didn't have a wingman...

Sean O

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Okay, earlier today I was walking towards a HB5.5 and a HB8 and I noticed that they were both checking me out, so I decided to talk to them. Long story short, I didn't have a wingman, and because we were just on the sidewalk of a residential street I had no other way to isolate the HB8, so to avoid being insulting to the HB5.5 (which in turn would probably have killed my chances with the HB8) I got both of their numbers.

Now, my question to you DJs is: would it be acceptable to just call the HB8 up and try to set up a date, or should I bring both of them with me when I go out with some friends before I try to get closer to the HB8?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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