"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Didn't have a wingman...

Sean O

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Okay, earlier today I was walking towards a HB5.5 and a HB8 and I noticed that they were both checking me out, so I decided to talk to them. Long story short, I didn't have a wingman, and because we were just on the sidewalk of a residential street I had no other way to isolate the HB8, so to avoid being insulting to the HB5.5 (which in turn would probably have killed my chances with the HB8) I got both of their numbers.

Now, my question to you DJs is: would it be acceptable to just call the HB8 up and try to set up a date, or should I bring both of them with me when I go out with some friends before I try to get closer to the HB8?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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