She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If you are in the very early stages of hair loss and you want to really keep your hair, I strongly recommend doing whatever it takes to keep your hair. If your in that 27-32 age group where you just started losing (usually your temples or crown starts to recede) you can stop it and possibly restore it to it's original glorypyros said:Im starting to get bald...slowly but inevitably...eventhough I take propecia and use minoxidil.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I think you should have my usernameKingBeef said:If you are in the very early stages of hair loss and you want to really keep your hair, I strongly recommend doing whatever it takes to keep your hair. If your in that 27-32 age group where you just started losing (usually your temples or crown starts to recede) you can stop it and possibly restore it to it's original glory
I know a lot of guys who started thinning and I flat out told them "take care of it now before you regret it." Some of them are either in denial or just lazy. They fiddle arround with it but take no action. A year or two goes by, it has progressed so much that they have to resort to transplants, systems, etc....you name it, a lot of money. Do your research, mix and match treatments, herbal remedies, maybe the strength of dosage is off or the frequency of applications have to be changed. You will find what works...
Do I look more masculine now that I'm bald? Yes. But I also equated when I was at my attractive/masculine peak (27-32) my issue was not just having hair but I was ripped as well. I would shave my head from time to time because I could and I had options and get a few looks here and there but never as much as hair. Having hair accentuated my looks...it complimented me VERY, VERY WELL. It was like, I'm good
looking, ripped, well dressed (fitted clothing)... It was like, Woman, please try to find a flaw in my physical arsenal....
Again, I may have digressed just a bit and let me be clear there's a lot of guys who have gone bald, do look fine and have no regrets .... BUT IF YOU KNOW YOU LOOK BETTER OR PREFER HAIR, WHY RESTRICT YOURSELF TO ONE LOOK WHEN YOU CAN HAVE YOUR OPTIONS OPEN?
You might be right about that...narcissist said:I think you should have my username