You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If you are in the very early stages of hair loss and you want to really keep your hair, I strongly recommend doing whatever it takes to keep your hair. If your in that 27-32 age group where you just started losing (usually your temples or crown starts to recede) you can stop it and possibly restore it to it's original glorypyros said:Im starting to get bald...slowly but inevitably...eventhough I take propecia and use minoxidil.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think you should have my usernameKingBeef said:If you are in the very early stages of hair loss and you want to really keep your hair, I strongly recommend doing whatever it takes to keep your hair. If your in that 27-32 age group where you just started losing (usually your temples or crown starts to recede) you can stop it and possibly restore it to it's original glory
I know a lot of guys who started thinning and I flat out told them "take care of it now before you regret it." Some of them are either in denial or just lazy. They fiddle arround with it but take no action. A year or two goes by, it has progressed so much that they have to resort to transplants, systems, etc....you name it, a lot of money. Do your research, mix and match treatments, herbal remedies, maybe the strength of dosage is off or the frequency of applications have to be changed. You will find what works...
Do I look more masculine now that I'm bald? Yes. But I also equated when I was at my attractive/masculine peak (27-32) my issue was not just having hair but I was ripped as well. I would shave my head from time to time because I could and I had options and get a few looks here and there but never as much as hair. Having hair accentuated my looks...it complimented me VERY, VERY WELL. It was like, I'm good
looking, ripped, well dressed (fitted clothing)... It was like, Woman, please try to find a flaw in my physical arsenal....
Again, I may have digressed just a bit and let me be clear there's a lot of guys who have gone bald, do look fine and have no regrets .... BUT IF YOU KNOW YOU LOOK BETTER OR PREFER HAIR, WHY RESTRICT YOURSELF TO ONE LOOK WHEN YOU CAN HAVE YOUR OPTIONS OPEN?
You might be right about that...narcissist said:I think you should have my username