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Did this sub-5 good samaritian spend 47 days in jail for helping a white woman

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This is why it's dangerous to help women, when you are a sub-5 guy, and why guys, in general are opting out of helping women in distress. It could generally land you in jail. Mind your own business next time someone needs help so you could avoid a prison sentence. That's where America is as a society.
 

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This is why it's dangerous to help women, when you are a sub-5 guy, and why guys, in general are opting out of helping women in distress. It could generally land you in jail. Mind your own business next time someone needs help so you could avoid a prison sentence. That's where America is as a society.
The guy has a strong case for a civil suit against the woman.

The real tragedy is that the criminal court system in cities like Atlanta is so far behind that it takes two months to get a bail hearing. In New Orleans it can be 6-12 months or even longer. Some people wait in jail for a longer time than the maximum punishment for their alleged crime, before they even get their first hearing. My state eliminated cash bail recently for reasons like that.
 

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It's very common nowadays for Men to spend years in jail after being framed for rape or some bullcrap of that manner. Some have lost their jobs for being framed for sexual harassments, that's why it's very important to be a Self Disciplined Man sexually and you have holistic and spiritual knowledge to get rid of that thirst to kiss a woman's @ss in public and behind the scenes, you gotta rid of the need to get their validation and focus on higher goals, purpose and fulfilling endeavors in life. Stay focus, bounce back from your woes and keep fighting the good fight against these butched up Femnazis man.
 

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The guy has a strong case for a civil suit against the woman.

The real tragedy is that the criminal court system in cities like Atlanta is so far behind that it takes two months to get a bail hearing. In New Orleans it can be 6-12 months or even longer. Some people wait in jail for a longer time than the maximum punishment for their alleged crime, before they even get their first hearing. My state eliminated cash bail recently for reasons like that.
The cops should have never arrested and charged him in the first place. If there's a surveillance video available, they should have watched it before arresting the guy.
 

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The cops should have never arrested and charged him in the first place. If there's a surveillance video available, they should have watched it before arresting the guy.
I think it's optimistic to assume that police would take the time to verify video before arresting someone—especially when racial bias is involved. Unfortunately, in both the U.S. and other places, systemic racism can lead to a situation where the word of a white individual is given far more weight than that of a Black or Brown person. This isn't always about incompetence—it's sometimes about deep structural bias that leads to false arrests and unjust outcomes. The way ‘Stand Your Ground’ or ‘castle doctrine’ laws are applied often reflects this imbalance, favoring some and punishing others. If the individual in question had simply been white, this incident might never have happened. That should concern all of us
 
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I think it's optimistic to assume that police would take the time to verify video before arresting someone—especially when racial bias is involved. Unfortunately, in both the U.S. and other places, systemic racism can lead to a situation where the word of a white individual is given far more weight than that of a Black or Brown person. This isn't always about incompetence—it's sometimes about deep structural bias that leads to false arrests and unjust outcomes. The way ‘Stand Your Ground’ or ‘castle doctrine’ laws are applied often reflects this imbalance, favoring some and punishing others. If the individual in question had simply been white, this incident might never have happened. That should concern all of us
How can you just assume that this was a result of racial bias? This happened in Atlanta, where most cops are not even white. The accused is an Indian, the complaint is white and the cops who made the arrest were in all likelihood black.
 

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How can you just assume that this was a result of racial bias? This happened in Atlanta, where most cops are not even white. The accused is an Indian, the complaint is white and the cops who made the arrest were in all likelihood black.
Because the cops didn't look at the survaillance video at the store and just took the word of a lying White woman.
 

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The cops should have never arrested and charged him in the first place. If there's a surveillance video available, they should have watched it before arresting the guy.
My local wal-mart only hires people who are largely brain dead. I could see them being too stupid or incompetent to replay the video for the police.

And it could have been gender bias behind their decision-making. Cops tend to be high testosterone young men, and might be biased to take the woman's side if she is the slightest bit attractive.
 

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Or more of an age and gender bias.

Unfortunately, a middle aged man who is unattractive and alone can sometimes be viewed as a creep, even if the guy is harmless.
He was not alone though. He had a family, daughter, a business, and was successful. He was just alone in the store. (ie you are not going to bring your wife/family everywhere you are going right...you are going to be occasionally physically alone even if you are with someone as it's logistically impossible to always be with your SO, plus sometimes you have me time)

He did not go to hit on this girl but tried to help her child. The videos show his interactions with her didn't look like he was trying to pick her up or go beyond public decency or general courtesy. The question still stands, if it was a burley middle aged white guy that did the same thing, would she have responded the same way, or would police have also treated him like "guilty until proven innoscent"?
 

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How can you just assume that this was a result of racial bias? This happened in Atlanta, where most cops are not even white. The accused is an Indian, the complaint is white and the cops who made the arrest were in all likelihood black.
Corrector can be an idiot, but he is 100% right o this one.

If there's anything I fear more than a racist white cop it'd be a (ANY) black cop!! And to make matter worse: a female black cop.

They be power tripping 24/7 .
 

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He was not alone though. He had a family, daughter, a business, and was successful. He was just alone in the store. (ie you are not going to bring your wife/family everywhere you are going right...you are going to be occasionally physically alone even if you are with someone as it's logistically impossible to always be with your SO, plus sometimes you have me time)

Unfortunately, perception is reality. He was alone in that store. People in the store don’t know about his family and business success.

He did not go to hit on this girl but tried to help her child. The videos show his interactions with her didn't look like he was trying to pick her up or go beyond public decency or general courtesy. The question still stands, if it was a burley middle aged white guy that did the same thing, would she have responded the same way, or would police have also treated him like "guilty until proven innoscent"?
I think we’re talking about two different angles. I don’t doubt that a racial bias issue made things worse.

I just meant that if he had been a younger handsome guy, she also might have responded differently.

Off topic, this was in the south where it’s probably normal to talk to people in stores. Here in the north, if you wanted Tylenol (or anything), 99 percent of the time, you’d only ask a store employee. I’ve shopped for years and never had another customer ask me where stuff was.
 

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I think we’re talking about two different angles. I don’t doubt that a racial bias issue made things worse.

I just meant that if he had been a younger handsome guy, she also might have responded differently.

Off topic, this was in the south where it’s probably normal to talk to people in stores. Here in the north, if you wanted Tylenol (or anything), 99 percent of the time, you’d only ask a store employee. I’ve shopped for years and never had another customer ask me where stuff was.
Well no doubt, him having a solid family, and good daughter, who help set up his defense lawyer, was crucial in getting him out of jail (ie after 47 days in jail) even though they could not keep him out of there in the first place. If he was truly alone then he might still be in jail today while these surveilence videos would be stored somewhere (ie assuming that came even out on time for trial).

When he interacted with her, the premise was on helping her child first. The tylenol must have some afterwards, but was never used to break the ice in the first place. You are suggesting if he was a hot Indian 20 year old guy that she would not have done that to him? That ties into the premise of this thread and what I also asserted from the get-go. That was before I found out he has a family and successful business, all of which is different then how sub-5s normally are.
 

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My local wal-mart only hires people who are largely brain dead. I could see them being too stupid or incompetent to replay the video for the police.
Unless the police officers were also largely brain-dead, they should have known that every large retail store has multiple security cameras. The first thing they should have done was request security footage from Walmart staff.
 

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Corrector can be an idiot, but he is 100% right o this one.

If there's anything I fear more than a racist white cop it'd be a (ANY) black cop!! And to make matter worse: a female black cop.

They be power tripping 24/7 .
What does this have to do with pro-white racial bias, which is what corrector was alluding to?
 

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Well no doubt, him having a solid family, and good daughter, who help set up his defense lawyer, was crucial in getting him out of jail (ie after 47 days in jail) even though they could not keep him out of there in the first place. If he was truly alone then he might still be in jail today while these surveilence videos would be stored somewhere (ie assuming that came even out on time for trial).

When he interacted with her, the premise was on helping her child first. The tylenol must have some afterwards, but was never used to break the ice in the first place. You are suggesting if he was a hot Indian 20 year old guy that she would not have done that to him? That ties into the premise of this thread and what I also asserted from the get-go. That was before I found out he has a family and successful business, all of which is different then how sub-5s normally are.
I agree with the original premise of the thread which is a black pill sort of angle.

I just don’t think the family or business success piece made any difference at the store because he was alone. It was only somewhat helpful after he got arrested.

If he had his wife with him in the store, then he might have been perceived as more “safe” and might have gotten a slightly better reaction. And the police could have questioned his wife too as she would have been a witness.

And I agree with everybody that the police should have reviewed the video recordings. That’s a no brainer.

Anyway, he was a good guy who meant well and did nothing wrong. He unfortunately had a number of factors against him: age, looks, being alone, ethnicity, and very questionable police work.
 
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If he had his wife with him in the store, then he might have been perceived as more “safe” and might have gotten a slightly better reaction. And the police could have questioned his wife too as she would have been a witness.
Even so, the false accusation charge itself was too rough and just terrible. Single guys aren't interested in anyone's children or babies.

In fact, he likely intervened there because he was a family man who had a daughter and was very grounded with his situation to offer asssistance. It's more likely a single guy that was looking to hit on a girl would not have seen that type of woman as a target in the first place and probably would have not even noticed her child. Guess that would be the irony of the whole thing.
 

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What does this have to do with pro-white racial bias, which is what corrector was alluding to?
Let me be your guide in the world of colored people.

You said Atlanta (IIRC I'm painting taking a wuick break) is predominantly black. A black cop will be will double down on biases towards another black person. Why? Because the cop is scared OTHER people will say " aaaah those blacks are doing favors for one another ". He will be twice as biased and annoying. Same goes for Latinos Arabs Indians ect.

Welcome in the world of colored people.
 
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