"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Did this girl just **** test me?

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We were talking about kissing and how she wants me to teach her. We were joking about marriage.. I think she **** tested m about the size of penis mattering, didn't realize it till after. Shes a cute little girl, moved to the US when she was 15, innocent looking, confidence problems, elementary school teacher. What should I think of this>?
Only though about this bc she stopped sharing photos right after, meaning she clicked out of the IM..Or am I thinking too much?

Her says:
yeah and does the size of the tounge matter?
because mine is tiny
Chris says:
haha no it doesnt matter, only as long as theres sum contact in the beggining
Her says:
ah ok

She stopped sharing photos

Chris says:
if it ends up getting hot and heavy, then we'll have to change things up a bit
Her says:
yeah i'll bring ice to cool down and a chastity belt



Then she went to talking like she normally does, like nothing happened..............
Just went back to the wedding ideas, okay maybe im tihkning to much into this lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't really know what to make out of the dialogue, but I do know this; action > talk. If she is talking about you teaching her how to kiss, then show her how it is done! The fictional marriage stuff is tacky to me, but it depends on you and her if that works.

As for the sh*t test, the key is to not let it get in your head. In fact, I believe guys fall for sh*t tests due to the simple notion that such tests exist. Be funny, be confident, and don't think her tests can get the better of you - they shouldn't.
 

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I don't really know what to make out of the dialogue, but I do know this; action > talk. If she is talking about you teaching her how to kiss, then show her how it is done! The fictional marriage stuff is tacky to me, but it depends on you and her if that works.

As for the sh*t test, the key is to not let it get in your head. In fact, I believe guys fall for sh*t tests due to the simple notion that such tests exist. Be funny, be confident, and don't think her tests can get the better of you - they shouldn't.
 

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This girls starting to piss me off. Im actaully starting to like her a lot, but no idea if she likes me back or not..How do you guys translate this convo?



Her says (10:55 PM):
sis*
you wish i came at ya
but i wont

Chris says (10:55 PM):
hahhaa ur the one having fantasys about me
Her says (10:56 PM):
who says? youre nto in my head
you dont nkow wahts going on
dont flatter yourself
Chris says (10:56 PM):
haha the more u try to deny it the more i know its true
Her says (10:56 PM):
just because yoiu are a good looking fellah doesnt mean i automatically have fantasies in which we're both running through the forest in a thunderstorm, when we find a cave with a fire already lit and a bed made of hay

Chris says (10:57 PM):
ohhhh baby, lets make that come true
Her says (10:57 PM):
hahahahaha
i really dont
i dont wanna get stranded
in the middleof nowhere
as hot as it may sound

Chris says (10:57 PM):
haha thats what my GPS is for
Her says (10:57 PM):
but acftually after getting wet in a thunderstorm in the middle of the night
finding a nice comfy cave
with a bed made of hay
and a nice fire
would be very nice

Chris says (10:58 PM):
hehe me and u in a comphy cave, cuddling togeather
Her says (10:58 PM): :)

Chris says (10:58 PM): :)

Her says (10:58 PM):
and on that nice note
it'd be nice to control dreams
Her says (10:59 PM):
i'll try it tonight and report back

Chris says (10:59 PM):
haha k sounds good...how go to sleep, and stop thinking about me so much!
Her says (10:59 PM):
well no
then i wont be able to control the dreammm
i mean
yeah sure
etc.
Chris says (10:59 PM):
i said thinking not dreaming haha
Her says (10:59 PM):
well if i dont think of you i cant dream of you
dont you know how dreams work?
dream noob
Her says (11:00 PM):
it's ok i'll teach you one day
Chris says (11:00 PM):
ohhh was that supposed to hurt? lol cuz that felt like a misqueto bite
Her says (11:00 PM):
hahahahahahahahaha
mosquito**
and it wasn't i was just stating the truth!
ok night Chris
awy to ruin the "good note"
way*

Chris says (11:01 PM):
like always (her name)haha good night
Her says (11:01 PM):
hahaha buona note Chris!
 

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Stop over-analysing. And limit time you spend chatting online with her.

That sends the impression (rightly or wrongly) that you are sitting around with nothing to do.

Forget the IM chat and focus only on when you meet in person.

Whatever she says online is of no relevance unless it translates into something happening in real life.

Ignore her words and focus on her actions (refer my Sig).
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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runner83 said:
Stop over-analysing. And limit time you spend chatting online with her.

That sends the impression (rightly or wrongly) that you are sitting around with nothing to do.

Forget the IM chat and focus only on when you meet in person.

Whatever she says online is of no relevance unless it translates into something happening in real life.

Ignore her words and focus on her actions (refer my Sig).
I know about the actions over words. Will do bro, thanks
 
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