"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Did this girl just **** test me?

Crissco

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We were talking about kissing and how she wants me to teach her. We were joking about marriage.. I think she **** tested m about the size of penis mattering, didn't realize it till after. Shes a cute little girl, moved to the US when she was 15, innocent looking, confidence problems, elementary school teacher. What should I think of this>?
Only though about this bc she stopped sharing photos right after, meaning she clicked out of the IM..Or am I thinking too much?

Her says:
yeah and does the size of the tounge matter?
because mine is tiny
Chris says:
haha no it doesnt matter, only as long as theres sum contact in the beggining
Her says:
ah ok

She stopped sharing photos

Chris says:
if it ends up getting hot and heavy, then we'll have to change things up a bit
Her says:
yeah i'll bring ice to cool down and a chastity belt



Then she went to talking like she normally does, like nothing happened..............
Just went back to the wedding ideas, okay maybe im tihkning to much into this lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't really know what to make out of the dialogue, but I do know this; action > talk. If she is talking about you teaching her how to kiss, then show her how it is done! The fictional marriage stuff is tacky to me, but it depends on you and her if that works.

As for the sh*t test, the key is to not let it get in your head. In fact, I believe guys fall for sh*t tests due to the simple notion that such tests exist. Be funny, be confident, and don't think her tests can get the better of you - they shouldn't.
 

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I don't really know what to make out of the dialogue, but I do know this; action > talk. If she is talking about you teaching her how to kiss, then show her how it is done! The fictional marriage stuff is tacky to me, but it depends on you and her if that works.

As for the sh*t test, the key is to not let it get in your head. In fact, I believe guys fall for sh*t tests due to the simple notion that such tests exist. Be funny, be confident, and don't think her tests can get the better of you - they shouldn't.
 

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This girls starting to piss me off. Im actaully starting to like her a lot, but no idea if she likes me back or not..How do you guys translate this convo?



Her says (10:55 PM):
sis*
you wish i came at ya
but i wont

Chris says (10:55 PM):
hahhaa ur the one having fantasys about me
Her says (10:56 PM):
who says? youre nto in my head
you dont nkow wahts going on
dont flatter yourself
Chris says (10:56 PM):
haha the more u try to deny it the more i know its true
Her says (10:56 PM):
just because yoiu are a good looking fellah doesnt mean i automatically have fantasies in which we're both running through the forest in a thunderstorm, when we find a cave with a fire already lit and a bed made of hay

Chris says (10:57 PM):
ohhhh baby, lets make that come true
Her says (10:57 PM):
hahahahaha
i really dont
i dont wanna get stranded
in the middleof nowhere
as hot as it may sound

Chris says (10:57 PM):
haha thats what my GPS is for
Her says (10:57 PM):
but acftually after getting wet in a thunderstorm in the middle of the night
finding a nice comfy cave
with a bed made of hay
and a nice fire
would be very nice

Chris says (10:58 PM):
hehe me and u in a comphy cave, cuddling togeather
Her says (10:58 PM): :)

Chris says (10:58 PM): :)

Her says (10:58 PM):
and on that nice note
it'd be nice to control dreams
Her says (10:59 PM):
i'll try it tonight and report back

Chris says (10:59 PM):
haha k sounds good...how go to sleep, and stop thinking about me so much!
Her says (10:59 PM):
well no
then i wont be able to control the dreammm
i mean
yeah sure
etc.
Chris says (10:59 PM):
i said thinking not dreaming haha
Her says (10:59 PM):
well if i dont think of you i cant dream of you
dont you know how dreams work?
dream noob
Her says (11:00 PM):
it's ok i'll teach you one day
Chris says (11:00 PM):
ohhh was that supposed to hurt? lol cuz that felt like a misqueto bite
Her says (11:00 PM):
hahahahahahahahaha
mosquito**
and it wasn't i was just stating the truth!
ok night Chris
awy to ruin the "good note"
way*

Chris says (11:01 PM):
like always (her name)haha good night
Her says (11:01 PM):
hahaha buona note Chris!
 

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Stop over-analysing. And limit time you spend chatting online with her.

That sends the impression (rightly or wrongly) that you are sitting around with nothing to do.

Forget the IM chat and focus only on when you meet in person.

Whatever she says online is of no relevance unless it translates into something happening in real life.

Ignore her words and focus on her actions (refer my Sig).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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runner83 said:
Stop over-analysing. And limit time you spend chatting online with her.

That sends the impression (rightly or wrongly) that you are sitting around with nothing to do.

Forget the IM chat and focus only on when you meet in person.

Whatever she says online is of no relevance unless it translates into something happening in real life.

Ignore her words and focus on her actions (refer my Sig).
I know about the actions over words. Will do bro, thanks
 
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