backseatjuan
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You're an idiot, sorry. 
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm an idiot? Says the guy arguing with a guy with a legal background and knows the police procedural. What's you background?backseatjuan said:You're an idiot, sorry.![]()
Exactly.TizZle said:lmao. all they got to do is bring in a drug dog and "use" it to get to a point to where they can search your car. you're kidding yourself if you don't think they can get a dog to hit on a part of a car even if drugs aren't present.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Cops can lie to you. It's completely legal.Jake_tha_Boss said:don't say nothin to police, ask for a lawyer & be patient, don't let anything a cop says scare u, they will lie their asses off to scare u and get u to talkin
Hmmmm... excellent words. Hopefully I'll remember this when I need it.Bible_Belt said:And here's some more magic words:
"I feel intimidated."
If the cops are wearing a recording device, which is common, those words will fvck up their day. That's because when the judge later looks at whether the search was legal, the two factors he balances against each other are 'informed consent to the search' versus police intimidation.
i know that but some people think police don't lie because theyre "looked up to"Alle_Gory said:Cops can lie to you. It's completely legal.
Always presume they are lying to you unless they show you proof they are not.Jake_tha_Boss said:i know that but some people think police don't lie because theyre "looked up to"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Some people are also idiots.Jake_tha_Boss said:i know that but some people think police don't lie because theyre "looked up to"