"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CanuckinSK

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I went to a peeler bar with a friend from work. First time I've ever been in one. It was a bit of a letdown though, and I found it pretty boring. Two of the three girls couldn't dance to save their souls, and they appeared somewhat awkward, not sexy at all. We left halfway through the third striptease.

I found a certain curiosity in the one guy who would walk down to the stage and leave a $20 in exchange for a smile and a hi from the stripper. He did this with each of the three girls.

I just thought, why?? He's giving them money for absolutely nothing.

On the bright side, the waitress was pretty friendly and tapped me on the arm or shoulder every time she would talk to me. I assumed this was just standard 'waitress being friendly' behaviour and not an IOI, so I just ignored it.

I dunno, maybe I'm just losing interest in everything. It just didn't turn me on at all...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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CanuckinSK said:
the waitress was pretty friendly and tapped me on the arm or shoulder every time she would talk to me.
chumpness overthinking to the extreme

do you realize that normal guys don't think about nor do they report to a forum every time that they get tapped on the shoulder by a girl?

i am 100% sure your main things holding you back from success are LOOKS and LACK OF PRACTICE dating/talking to women
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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CanuckinSK said:
...I found a certain curiosity in the one guy who would walk down to the stage and leave a $20 in exchange for a smile and a hi from the stripper. He did this with each of the three girls.

I just thought, why?? He's giving them money for absolutely nothing...
There are guys that will give their money away to women like this and there are guys who will give their money away to women via dinner or drinks who don't even get to see any T&A. Gotta wonder between the two which guy walks away ahead.
 

CanuckinSK

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Real said:
chumpness overthinking to the extreme

do you realize that normal guys don't think about nor do they report to a forum every time that they get tapped on the shoulder by a girl?

i am 100% sure your main things holding you back from success are LOOKS and LACK OF PRACTICE dating/talking to women

More words of wisdom from Mr Real.:rolleyes: I'm 100% sure you should do some more reading on this site in regards to what 'normal guys' are posting.

I've read your posts on other topics, and it's quite apparent that most of your thoughts stem from a very immature mind.

There are way too many people on this site who care more about putting others down and less about genuinely attempting to offer positive advice and intelligent comments. Do everyone a favour and don't be one of those people.
 

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Actually I agree with Real on this one. But at least CanuckinSK realized that the contact with the waitress meant nothing. I just don't think that is worth posting about.

Interesting term peeler bar. In America they are called strip clubs. I've been to a couple. It was the first time I've ever seen a real live naked woman :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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