"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CanuckinSK

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I went to a peeler bar with a friend from work. First time I've ever been in one. It was a bit of a letdown though, and I found it pretty boring. Two of the three girls couldn't dance to save their souls, and they appeared somewhat awkward, not sexy at all. We left halfway through the third striptease.

I found a certain curiosity in the one guy who would walk down to the stage and leave a $20 in exchange for a smile and a hi from the stripper. He did this with each of the three girls.

I just thought, why?? He's giving them money for absolutely nothing.

On the bright side, the waitress was pretty friendly and tapped me on the arm or shoulder every time she would talk to me. I assumed this was just standard 'waitress being friendly' behaviour and not an IOI, so I just ignored it.

I dunno, maybe I'm just losing interest in everything. It just didn't turn me on at all...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CanuckinSK said:
the waitress was pretty friendly and tapped me on the arm or shoulder every time she would talk to me.
chumpness overthinking to the extreme

do you realize that normal guys don't think about nor do they report to a forum every time that they get tapped on the shoulder by a girl?

i am 100% sure your main things holding you back from success are LOOKS and LACK OF PRACTICE dating/talking to women
 

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CanuckinSK said:
...I found a certain curiosity in the one guy who would walk down to the stage and leave a $20 in exchange for a smile and a hi from the stripper. He did this with each of the three girls.

I just thought, why?? He's giving them money for absolutely nothing...
There are guys that will give their money away to women like this and there are guys who will give their money away to women via dinner or drinks who don't even get to see any T&A. Gotta wonder between the two which guy walks away ahead.
 

CanuckinSK

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Real said:
chumpness overthinking to the extreme

do you realize that normal guys don't think about nor do they report to a forum every time that they get tapped on the shoulder by a girl?

i am 100% sure your main things holding you back from success are LOOKS and LACK OF PRACTICE dating/talking to women

More words of wisdom from Mr Real.:rolleyes: I'm 100% sure you should do some more reading on this site in regards to what 'normal guys' are posting.

I've read your posts on other topics, and it's quite apparent that most of your thoughts stem from a very immature mind.

There are way too many people on this site who care more about putting others down and less about genuinely attempting to offer positive advice and intelligent comments. Do everyone a favour and don't be one of those people.
 

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Actually I agree with Real on this one. But at least CanuckinSK realized that the contact with the waitress meant nothing. I just don't think that is worth posting about.

Interesting term peeler bar. In America they are called strip clubs. I've been to a couple. It was the first time I've ever seen a real live naked woman :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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