Did something cool today

[snowdog]

I've made many cold approaches during the day through the years. I would open with a random conversation, or there was another reason for me to talk with her. I've gotten many numbers and dates out of this, it's great.

Today it was a little different. I had done it once before like this, but it was with a girl in an empty supermarket. This time it was in a super crowded subway. There was this really beautiful girl sitting next to me. She was a natural beauty and just seemed so sweet. I had my earbuds in, listening to Howard Stern. I did what I've been doing lately: doing what felt right without giving a **** about what might happen.

I took my earbuds out, turned to her and just said: "Has anyone ever told you you're super cute for no real reason?"

She warmed up to me instantly and we had a great talk. Before I realized it, we were at my stop and I had to leave, so I never got around asking for her number.

Still, it felt like a huge accomplishment. I really can't think of any situation anymore where I wouldn't go after a girl now. It felt like everyone around me was looking at me, too when I said it, and I just did it.

I ****ing love myself right now.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Awesome! that's all it takes dude. Just turn to them and chat em up. That girl is going to be thinking about you like crazy i'm sure.

You did something I love to do. I love to build my relationship with a few meetings before I number close. I hate trying to chat a girl and get her number right then and there. I like to make them feel that I am asking for her number because she proved to me that she is cool and earned it. Not just oh hi your cute # please? Now you don't want to wait everything out, if she is horny you can play hard to get for maybe an hour, not a couple days lol.

Now don't slip let her earn every little bit of attention you give her!

 

[snowdog]

Awesome! that's all it takes dude. Just turn to them and chat em up. That girl is going to be thinking about you like crazy i'm sure.

You did something I love to do. I love to build my relationship with a few meetings before I number close. I hate trying to chat a girl and get her number right then and there. I like to make them feel that I am asking for her number because she proved to me that she is cool and earned it. Not just oh hi your cute # please? Now you don't want to wait everything out, if she is horny you can play hard to get for maybe an hour, not a couple days lol.

Now don't slip let her earn every little bit of attention you give her!

Yeah, man. Saying it super direct like that takes balls. I think that's why it's so attractive to them. No one else does it. Like I said, I did many daytime approaches, but never really just opened so bluntly.

And that's pretty cool what you're saying there. I never tried that, but I'm going to for sure.

 

[moneyisking]

*silently claps at the audacity; nicely done* although number would been nice

 

[snowdog]

*silently claps at the audacity; nicely done* although number would been nice

Yeah, I know. I did get a number earlier that day though from a cute girl who worked at a store.

I just enjoy these small personal victories also.