I've made many cold approaches during the day through the years. I would open with a random conversation, or there was another reason for me to talk with her. I've gotten many numbers and dates out of this, it's great.
Today it was a little different. I had done it once before like this, but it was with a girl in an empty supermarket. This time it was in a super crowded subway. There was this really beautiful girl sitting next to me. She was a natural beauty and just seemed so sweet. I had my earbuds in, listening to Howard Stern. I did what I've been doing lately: doing what felt right without giving a **** about what might happen.
I took my earbuds out, turned to her and just said: "Has anyone ever told you you're super cute for no real reason?"
She warmed up to me instantly and we had a great talk. Before I realized it, we were at my stop and I had to leave, so I never got around asking for her number.
Still, it felt like a huge accomplishment. I really can't think of any situation anymore where I wouldn't go after a girl now. It felt like everyone around me was looking at me, too when I said it, and I just did it.
I ****ing love myself right now.
Today it was a little different. I had done it once before like this, but it was with a girl in an empty supermarket. This time it was in a super crowded subway. There was this really beautiful girl sitting next to me. She was a natural beauty and just seemed so sweet. I had my earbuds in, listening to Howard Stern. I did what I've been doing lately: doing what felt right without giving a **** about what might happen.
I took my earbuds out, turned to her and just said: "Has anyone ever told you you're super cute for no real reason?"
She warmed up to me instantly and we had a great talk. Before I realized it, we were at my stop and I had to leave, so I never got around asking for her number.
Still, it felt like a huge accomplishment. I really can't think of any situation anymore where I wouldn't go after a girl now. It felt like everyone around me was looking at me, too when I said it, and I just did it.
I ****ing love myself right now.