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You f**ked up. Move on. Sorry.dudeman99 said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Did she reject me before I asked?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
For the hell of it I sent her one last message.
"Well I see that you're busy. No worries."
and she actually writes back.
"I might try going to Club again this week. See you then?"
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Why did she even bother to reply?
That's the lamest most insincere counter offer I've ever seen.
It's like she wrote, "I'm sorry that I don't want to go on a date with you. Maybe you can see me at the end of the week during club meeting where there is no chance of us being alone together. Can't you see how nice I am? Tee hee."
"Well I see that you're busy. No worries."
and she actually writes back.
"I might try going to Club again this week. See you then?"
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Why did she even bother to reply?
That's the lamest most insincere counter offer I've ever seen.
It's like she wrote, "I'm sorry that I don't want to go on a date with you. Maybe you can see me at the end of the week during club meeting where there is no chance of us being alone together. Can't you see how nice I am? Tee hee."