"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Did She Miss Your Text?

VladPatton

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No, she didn't. You were most likely ignored, so take the appropriate action and do yourself a favor. That means Next, she's most likely not interested. She didn't forget to turn it on, she didn't leave it at work, her dog didn't chew it, and no, she most certainly did not run out of battery life. She just chose to ignore your ass.

Related:
Here's an article on "Sleep Texting"...yeah, it exists. It's pretty sick actually:

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/trouble-sleep-texting-article-1.1416141?print




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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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altec

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Overall I agree but I would try another method before just giving up completely (i.e. don't just send one text, not get a response and move on). If you call her and she doesn't call back then you know for sure she is ignoring vs. something else. I have had friends send me texts that they showed me on their phone which I have never received. I wonder if it happens more than reported to as usually I probably wouldn't even know if I missed a text.

I contacted this one girl who didn't respond to two of my texts (sent a week apart) after 3 months because I was kind of curious as she seemed friendly and I was more interested in getting into her into my social circle. She said she lost her phone and all of her contacts (sent her an e-mail as she changed companies/phone numbers too). We have hung out a bunch since and I have no reason to believe she was ignoring me initially and that her story is legit. Having said that, if she cared enough at that point she could have found me somehow I am sure (googling me/etc).
 

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If a woman is interested, she'll get back to you. If a woman plays games, assume the negative (she's in another castle, she's got better options, she's an attention wh0re, she just wants to be friends, etc.) and drop her ass.

Do you think a woman would forget to respond back to a mundane text from Brad Pitt? We know she wouldn't.

Case closed.
 
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