"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did She Miss Your Text?

VladPatton

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No, she didn't. You were most likely ignored, so take the appropriate action and do yourself a favor. That means Next, she's most likely not interested. She didn't forget to turn it on, she didn't leave it at work, her dog didn't chew it, and no, she most certainly did not run out of battery life. She just chose to ignore your ass.

Related:
Here's an article on "Sleep Texting"...yeah, it exists. It's pretty sick actually:

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/trouble-sleep-texting-article-1.1416141?print




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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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altec

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Overall I agree but I would try another method before just giving up completely (i.e. don't just send one text, not get a response and move on). If you call her and she doesn't call back then you know for sure she is ignoring vs. something else. I have had friends send me texts that they showed me on their phone which I have never received. I wonder if it happens more than reported to as usually I probably wouldn't even know if I missed a text.

I contacted this one girl who didn't respond to two of my texts (sent a week apart) after 3 months because I was kind of curious as she seemed friendly and I was more interested in getting into her into my social circle. She said she lost her phone and all of her contacts (sent her an e-mail as she changed companies/phone numbers too). We have hung out a bunch since and I have no reason to believe she was ignoring me initially and that her story is legit. Having said that, if she cared enough at that point she could have found me somehow I am sure (googling me/etc).
 

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If a woman is interested, she'll get back to you. If a woman plays games, assume the negative (she's in another castle, she's got better options, she's an attention wh0re, she just wants to be friends, etc.) and drop her ass.

Do you think a woman would forget to respond back to a mundane text from Brad Pitt? We know she wouldn't.

Case closed.
 
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