"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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did she do something wrong last night?

pete101

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my summer gf caught an eye infection yesterday morning, so i took her to the hospital. she went out partying last night and kept talking about how she couldnt put her eye make up on and how it upset her.. i kept asking her for who is she trying to impress and she was just dismissive.. we've already had arguments before about my jealousy

anyway today she doesn't call me to let me know what shes doing, she didn't want to go into public even with her friends and i think has been in her room all day, she has no phone so i call her friends who shes always with, 1 picked up but i couldnt hear what she said then it hung up then i tried calling back and couldnt get through.. so i called her other friend she let it ring a few times then pressed busy.

i left it for an hour and half then i called her friend back the 1 i first called she told me that my girl's eye was bad and she didnt come out with them today.

so i called her roommate twice she didnt pick up then i texted her to ask her if she was in her room she didnt reply,

so i went to her dorms and knocked on her door she was there but didnt want to see me.. her roommate told me that she doesnt want to see me, i said why? she said her eye was bad.

my girl is really insecure about her looks but everything looks really bad, is it possible she went out last night drank too much, hooked up with a guy, feels guilty about it now and has no story to cover her tracks, i told her roommate to tell her to come out and she refused.. im p1ssed now, i dont know why she cares so much how her eye looks when i only got 6 days left with her before she goes home.

do u think theres something more sinister going on that maybe she did something wrong last night?

or am i being unsympathetic to her eye problems?

she could be scared i will be scared away from her and that her eye looks hideous but it's in her mind, shes really insecure. but i feel angry now like i shouldnt answer her call tomorrow IF she even calls, cos she's disrespected me and my requests to see her. grr..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pete101 said:
my summer gf caught
If she is the same b!tch from your other thread... stop stalking her! She seems to like it in her mouth, on her eyes, all the time, with everybody... and seriously, you should make a STD-test. And stop stalking her!
 

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pete101 said:
my summer gf caught an eye infection yesterday morning, so i took her to the hospital. she went out partying last night and kept talking about how she couldnt put her eye make up on and how it upset her.. i kept asking her for who is she trying to impress and she was just dismissive.. we've already had arguments before about my jealousy

anyway today she doesn't call me to let me know what shes doing, she didn't want to go into public even with her friends and i think has been in her room all day, she has no phone so i call her friends who shes always with, 1 picked up but i couldnt hear what she said then it hung up then i tried calling back and couldnt get through.. so i called her other friend she let it ring a few times then pressed busy.

i left it for an hour and half then i called her friend back the 1 i first called she told me that my girl's eye was bad and she didnt come out with them today.

so i called her roommate twice she didnt pick up then i texted her to ask her if she was in her room she didnt reply,

so i went to her dorms and knocked on her door she was there but didnt want to see me.. her roommate told me that she doesnt want to see me, i said why? she said her eye was bad.

my girl is really insecure about her looks but everything looks really bad, is it possible she went out last night drank too much, hooked up with a guy, feels guilty about it now and has no story to cover her tracks, i told her roommate to tell her to come out and she refused.. im p1ssed now, i dont know why she cares so much how her eye looks when i only got 6 days left with her before she goes home.

do u think theres something more sinister going on that maybe she did something wrong last night?

or am i being unsympathetic to her eye problems?

she could be scared i will be scared away from her and that her eye looks hideous but it's in her mind, shes really insecure. but i feel angry now like i shouldnt answer her call tomorrow IF she even calls, cos she's disrespected me and my requests to see her. grr..

"my girl is really insecure about her looks but everything looks really bad, is it possible she went out last night drank too much, hooked up with a guy.

No.

People reading this, this is a sure sign of jelousy - Making something innocent, turning it into a girl (he is probably not even fuc*ing) seeing another guy, is the product of a guy with serious jelousy issues.

On the other hand seeing your girl blowing bob down the street is not jelousy -

There is a difference.

You've got issues kid.

She is not dis-respecting you, your just being an idiot.
 

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OK, you seem like a nice guy, but reading these few threads, I'm beginning to doubt your intelligence.

1) she won't let you come out with her

2) she is getting throat infections

3) ...and eye infections

4) you barely know her

5) she is ACTIVELY avoiding you...NO, she is straight up telling you she DOESN'T WANT TO SEE YOU.

And all the while you're b1tching on at her with blatant jealousy, and she KNOWS how jealous you are.

And you're running around like a headless chicken calling 5 of her friends and you don't even take the hint when every single one of them fvcks your phone call off and tells you to go away.

She's cheating on you bigstyle, and frankly, she wants to dump you.

Do you honestly not know that?
 

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I'd keep calling and texting her until she realizes that you're not insecure about her. Knock on her door again when she least suspects it. That'll show her what kind of man you really are.


Cheers!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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On the other hand, your jealousy issues are pretty big i.e. you're regularly arguing about sh1t, your phone calls get fvcked off by everyone, yet you still invite yourself up to her dorm even though you KNOW you are deliberately being ignored. So at this point it's hard to tell if you're just massively paranoid or your girl really is wh0ring around.

Putting your jealousy issues aside, do you think she is honestly cheating? If you genuinely believe so, then maybe you're right
 

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Pete,

you're not even entertaining me anymore. Geez. Get a grip.

To the rest of the thread, can a girl get this type of infection if she takes a load to the eye?
 

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Dood. You are what we call a lame. You need to back up out of this girls ass and go meet some other women ASAP.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don, you put women on a pedestal more than any other guy on this site.

Most guys try to get their number, you ask for their autograph.
 

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Obey Propaganda said:
Don, you put women on a pedestal more than any other guy on this site.

Most guys try to get their number, you ask for their autograph.

lol.. you have to be joking..lol :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

i love women and their bodies but their minds are a problem in most cases.. but I will do the work i must to gain and keep access to as many fine womens bodies as possible before i die.. No marriage , no kids..:nono:
 

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No one has mentioned the fact that you took her to the hospital, Yet she now doesn't want to see you, or have you see her?? Why not? The eye excuse is bogus unless her whole face swelled up and she looks hideous - but she would have told you this. After taking her to the hospital, she should at least have the courtesy to let you see her - out of concern. And yes there could be another reason behind her not wanting you to see her - this is common sense!

Maybe the ho turned into a Cyclops, to be then hereafter affectionately referred to as Ho-Clops!
 
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