"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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did she do something wrong last night?

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my summer gf caught an eye infection yesterday morning, so i took her to the hospital. she went out partying last night and kept talking about how she couldnt put her eye make up on and how it upset her.. i kept asking her for who is she trying to impress and she was just dismissive.. we've already had arguments before about my jealousy

anyway today she doesn't call me to let me know what shes doing, she didn't want to go into public even with her friends and i think has been in her room all day, she has no phone so i call her friends who shes always with, 1 picked up but i couldnt hear what she said then it hung up then i tried calling back and couldnt get through.. so i called her other friend she let it ring a few times then pressed busy.

i left it for an hour and half then i called her friend back the 1 i first called she told me that my girl's eye was bad and she didnt come out with them today.

so i called her roommate twice she didnt pick up then i texted her to ask her if she was in her room she didnt reply,

so i went to her dorms and knocked on her door she was there but didnt want to see me.. her roommate told me that she doesnt want to see me, i said why? she said her eye was bad.

my girl is really insecure about her looks but everything looks really bad, is it possible she went out last night drank too much, hooked up with a guy, feels guilty about it now and has no story to cover her tracks, i told her roommate to tell her to come out and she refused.. im p1ssed now, i dont know why she cares so much how her eye looks when i only got 6 days left with her before she goes home.

do u think theres something more sinister going on that maybe she did something wrong last night?

or am i being unsympathetic to her eye problems?

she could be scared i will be scared away from her and that her eye looks hideous but it's in her mind, shes really insecure. but i feel angry now like i shouldnt answer her call tomorrow IF she even calls, cos she's disrespected me and my requests to see her. grr..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If she is the same b!tch from your other thread... stop stalking her! She seems to like it in her mouth, on her eyes, all the time, with everybody... and seriously, you should make a STD-test. And stop stalking her!
 
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pete101 said:
my summer gf caught an eye infection yesterday morning, so i took her to the hospital. she went out partying last night and kept talking about how she couldnt put her eye make up on and how it upset her.. i kept asking her for who is she trying to impress and she was just dismissive.. we've already had arguments before about my jealousy

anyway today she doesn't call me to let me know what shes doing, she didn't want to go into public even with her friends and i think has been in her room all day, she has no phone so i call her friends who shes always with, 1 picked up but i couldnt hear what she said then it hung up then i tried calling back and couldnt get through.. so i called her other friend she let it ring a few times then pressed busy.

i left it for an hour and half then i called her friend back the 1 i first called she told me that my girl's eye was bad and she didnt come out with them today.

so i called her roommate twice she didnt pick up then i texted her to ask her if she was in her room she didnt reply,

so i went to her dorms and knocked on her door she was there but didnt want to see me.. her roommate told me that she doesnt want to see me, i said why? she said her eye was bad.

my girl is really insecure about her looks but everything looks really bad, is it possible she went out last night drank too much, hooked up with a guy, feels guilty about it now and has no story to cover her tracks, i told her roommate to tell her to come out and she refused.. im p1ssed now, i dont know why she cares so much how her eye looks when i only got 6 days left with her before she goes home.

do u think theres something more sinister going on that maybe she did something wrong last night?

or am i being unsympathetic to her eye problems?

she could be scared i will be scared away from her and that her eye looks hideous but it's in her mind, shes really insecure. but i feel angry now like i shouldnt answer her call tomorrow IF she even calls, cos she's disrespected me and my requests to see her. grr..
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"my girl is really insecure about her looks but everything looks really bad, is it possible she went out last night drank too much, hooked up with a guy.

No.

People reading this, this is a sure sign of jelousy - Making something innocent, turning it into a girl (he is probably not even fuc*ing) seeing another guy, is the product of a guy with serious jelousy issues.

On the other hand seeing your girl blowing bob down the street is not jelousy -

There is a difference.

You've got issues kid.

She is not dis-respecting you, your just being an idiot.
 
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OK, you seem like a nice guy, but reading these few threads, I'm beginning to doubt your intelligence.

1) she won't let you come out with her

2) she is getting throat infections

3) ...and eye infections

4) you barely know her

5) she is ACTIVELY avoiding you...NO, she is straight up telling you she DOESN'T WANT TO SEE YOU.

And all the while you're b1tching on at her with blatant jealousy, and she KNOWS how jealous you are.

And you're running around like a headless chicken calling 5 of her friends and you don't even take the hint when every single one of them fvcks your phone call off and tells you to go away.

She's cheating on you bigstyle, and frankly, she wants to dump you.

Do you honestly not know that?
 
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I'd keep calling and texting her until she realizes that you're not insecure about her. Knock on her door again when she least suspects it. That'll show her what kind of man you really are.


Cheers!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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On the other hand, your jealousy issues are pretty big i.e. you're regularly arguing about sh1t, your phone calls get fvcked off by everyone, yet you still invite yourself up to her dorm even though you KNOW you are deliberately being ignored. So at this point it's hard to tell if you're just massively paranoid or your girl really is wh0ring around.

Putting your jealousy issues aside, do you think she is honestly cheating? If you genuinely believe so, then maybe you're right
 
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Pete,

you're not even entertaining me anymore. Geez. Get a grip.

To the rest of the thread, can a girl get this type of infection if she takes a load to the eye?
 
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Dood. You are what we call a lame. You need to back up out of this girls ass and go meet some other women ASAP.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don, you put women on a pedestal more than any other guy on this site.

Most guys try to get their number, you ask for their autograph.
 
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Don, you put women on a pedestal more than any other guy on this site.

Most guys try to get their number, you ask for their autograph.
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lol.. you have to be joking..lol :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

i love women and their bodies but their minds are a problem in most cases.. but I will do the work i must to gain and keep access to as many fine womens bodies as possible before i die.. No marriage , no kids..:nono:
 
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No one has mentioned the fact that you took her to the hospital, Yet she now doesn't want to see you, or have you see her?? Why not? The eye excuse is bogus unless her whole face swelled up and she looks hideous - but she would have told you this. After taking her to the hospital, she should at least have the courtesy to let you see her - out of concern. And yes there could be another reason behind her not wanting you to see her - this is common sense!

Maybe the ho turned into a Cyclops, to be then hereafter affectionately referred to as Ho-Clops!
 
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