Did not see this coming, need a quick response

[JonnyD123]

Cold approached this dime of a girl 2 weeks ago. Went out the following day and hooked up. Last week we tried to get together but couldn't get our schedules right. She texts me out of the blue yesterday seeing if I was free. Just so happened I was. Made plans to meet up today. She texted me again today wondering if we're still on. I responded yes. About 3-4 hrs later she responds with a "sorry but I'm staying in tonight instead" text. Any thoughts?

 

[sodbuster]

something/someone better showed up.... don't over think it. Be a bit harder to get..... since she already took precious time out of your life

 

[wifehunter]

Make plans few days out... that way she gets to think about you until then.

Build anticipation.. they love drama!

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Nah, I'd check her. Your a busy man running businesses and you have important things to do. You cleared your schedule to make time for her and then she just flaked (she really had the first dude show up). You need to let her know that she needs to respect your time.

If you don't lay down the law now she will continue to do this in the future. You need to nib this in the bud

 

[HoneyHitter]

Ok, let me guess... you didn't bang her first chance you got. Or sex was bad. As a consequence she demoted you to orbiter status.

 

[CMNILS87]

Nah, I'd check her. Your a busy man running businesses and you have important things to do. You cleared your schedule to make time for her and then she just flaked (she really had the first dude show up). You need to let her know that she needs to respect your time.

If you don't lay down the law now she will continue to do this in the future. You need to nib this in the bud

I'm half and half. Disciplining her does nothing. But it's odd that she reaches out and agrees to meet and even texts to make sure you're still on. That's literally a guaranteed meet up. Last minute flake. That doesn't happen often with a girl who has interest like that. Still super disrespectful. I couldn't imagine confirming and then being like "nah I'm just gonna watch Netflix".

How would you even reply? I don't get many flakes, most women in the upper Midwest are thirsty.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Dont get butt hurt...
"have a nice night" then go out have fun, and if she contacts you take your time to reply and be too busy for tbe next week or so. I would probably soft next her if she doesnt get it.

 

[BeTheChange]

Jesus...I thought this was going to be a "my wife cheated on me and now wants a divorce" type thread. What a waste of time.

Drop this women. She clearly doesn't respect your time. Making a thread over a girl you met two weeks ago...come on man.

 

[ZTIME]

Ooohhh boy! Unfortunately in the human world people will change their minds, flake on you, lie to you, and generally do weird svht.

It's how you react in these situations that will define you as a man. My top 3 responses for you would be as follows: "No Problem, or No Worries, or Cool". I would then proceed to carry on with my life as if nothing ever happened.

Quite frankly, nothing has happened other then you escalating your interest and need way faster then she has after one date.

I would suggest learning how to cultivate carrots instead of letting people dangle them in front of you.

 

[dude99]

I'm half and half. Disciplining her does nothing. But it's odd that she reaches out and agrees to meet and even texts to make sure you're still on. That's literally a guaranteed meet up. Last minute flake. That doesn't happen often with a girl who has interest like that. Still super disrespectful. I couldn't imagine confirming and then being like "nah I'm just gonna watch Netflix".

How would you even reply? I don't get many flakes, most women in the upper Midwest are thirsty.

Don't respond at all. If she reaches out again. You're too busy for her.