"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did my gf just try to give me blue balls?

BlackMack177

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Brownrice said:
It was a sh!t test to see how much she can use sex to control you. You should have just stopped after she denied your second attempt and acted like nothing happened. As you become a more experienced player, you will learn to keep your cool and blue balls will be gone from your vocabulary because getting sex will be so easy to you. When a girl does that, you just go bang another chick.

Don't listen to the other guys saying she was playing hard to get and you should have been more aggressive. When a girl doesn't want to have sex and you force her, it's fcking rape. It's totally up to her to decide if you raped or if it was just rough sex, it's like walking on really thin ice.

When a girl wants to get rough with her, she will tell you. Otherwise, you're putting your future on the line.
^^So much this^

all this attempted mind reading sh1t is bogus. Don't sit and think about what she could have possibly wanted by doing that. It's a waste of energy

She was being a **** tease plan and simple. Just play it cool next time and don't over react. You pass the test with flying colors.

That type of reaction you gave is best left to one night stands and booty calls, not your girl friend
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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#1 - She said "Yes, I know" about being rude. I personally don't take too kindly to that. That was disrespectful

#2) - Why all this speculation, as if everyone here thinks it's unthinkable to just ask her what was going on, to talk it through?
 
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