"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Did my gf just try to give me blue balls?

BlackMack177

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Brownrice said:
It was a sh!t test to see how much she can use sex to control you. You should have just stopped after she denied your second attempt and acted like nothing happened. As you become a more experienced player, you will learn to keep your cool and blue balls will be gone from your vocabulary because getting sex will be so easy to you. When a girl does that, you just go bang another chick.

Don't listen to the other guys saying she was playing hard to get and you should have been more aggressive. When a girl doesn't want to have sex and you force her, it's fcking rape. It's totally up to her to decide if you raped or if it was just rough sex, it's like walking on really thin ice.

When a girl wants to get rough with her, she will tell you. Otherwise, you're putting your future on the line.
^^So much this^

all this attempted mind reading sh1t is bogus. Don't sit and think about what she could have possibly wanted by doing that. It's a waste of energy

She was being a **** tease plan and simple. Just play it cool next time and don't over react. You pass the test with flying colors.

That type of reaction you gave is best left to one night stands and booty calls, not your girl friend
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Atom Smasher

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#1 - She said "Yes, I know" about being rude. I personally don't take too kindly to that. That was disrespectful

#2) - Why all this speculation, as if everyone here thinks it's unthinkable to just ask her what was going on, to talk it through?
 
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