"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did i wait too long? (advice)

jj707

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Hey guys this is my first post. i decided to post here because i have a problem and im quite unexperienced in the field of relationships and women in general, Someone please set me straight

Here's my story,

there's this girl named Linda in my Math class, I've known her since august, but I really started talking to her in November/December, anyway she was always touching my shoulder and thigh to get my attention, even though i used to sit right next to her.

Anyway time passed and when the new semester arrived, My whole math class had to switch teachers. I no longer sat next to her. We stopped talking and things died down.

Then on Valentines days she received a rose, and she thought i sent it, needless to say she was all over me for about a week, her friend even told me that Linda liked me, and she would touch my arm and get all giggly when i worked with her:
I didn't do anything about it
Now its a month after that happened, and things died down once again
Still when i talk to her i make her laugh and she still touches my shoulder and thigh for attention when im close to her.

The reason i didnt do anything was because i didnt have feeling for her before but during the winter break i had time to think and i realized how much i liked talking to her and making her laugh.
I've never talked to her outside of class ( yea i know)

Sorry for the long read, anyway what do i do now?do i talk to her more often?
ask her to hang out sometime? or did i Screw myself, Someone please set me straight.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cockynfunny

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hey man and welcome, this site rules!

Everyone usually says that when you start interaction you have to make sure to go out with her as soon as possible.

Go up to her and get together after school

You might still have a chance. You never know untill you try:)

Good luck, man
 

eaglez1177

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jj707 said:
Hey guys this is my first post. i decided to post here because i have a problem and im quite unexperienced in the field of relationships and women in general, Someone please set me straight

Here's my story,

there's this girl named Linda in my Math class, I've known her since august, but I really started talking to her in November/December, anyway she was always touching my shoulder and thigh to get my attention, even though i used to sit right next to her.

Anyway time passed and when the new semester arrived, My whole math class had to switch teachers. I no longer sat next to her. We stopped talking and things died down.

Then on Valentines days she received a rose, and she thought i sent it, needless to say she was all over me for about a week, her friend even told me that Linda liked me, and she would touch my arm and get all giggly when i worked with her:
I didn't do anything about it
Now its a month after that happened, and things died down once again
Still when i talk to her i make her laugh and she still touches my shoulder and thigh for attention when im close to her.

The reason i didnt do anything was because i didnt have feeling for her before but during the winter break i had time to think and i realized how much i liked talking to her and making her laugh.
I've never talked to her outside of class ( yea i know)

Sorry for the long read, anyway what do i do now?do i talk to her more often?
ask her to hang out sometime? or did i Screw myself, Someone please set me straight.
If shes still giving you IOIs, then I would definitely go for it. And yea just talk to her more often and ask her to hang out. Make sure you hang out with her VERY soon though, because she wont be interested in you forever.
 
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