"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Did i wait too long? (advice)

jj707

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Hey guys this is my first post. i decided to post here because i have a problem and im quite unexperienced in the field of relationships and women in general, Someone please set me straight

Here's my story,

there's this girl named Linda in my Math class, I've known her since august, but I really started talking to her in November/December, anyway she was always touching my shoulder and thigh to get my attention, even though i used to sit right next to her.

Anyway time passed and when the new semester arrived, My whole math class had to switch teachers. I no longer sat next to her. We stopped talking and things died down.

Then on Valentines days she received a rose, and she thought i sent it, needless to say she was all over me for about a week, her friend even told me that Linda liked me, and she would touch my arm and get all giggly when i worked with her:
I didn't do anything about it
Now its a month after that happened, and things died down once again
Still when i talk to her i make her laugh and she still touches my shoulder and thigh for attention when im close to her.

The reason i didnt do anything was because i didnt have feeling for her before but during the winter break i had time to think and i realized how much i liked talking to her and making her laugh.
I've never talked to her outside of class ( yea i know)

Sorry for the long read, anyway what do i do now?do i talk to her more often?
ask her to hang out sometime? or did i Screw myself, Someone please set me straight.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cockynfunny

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hey man and welcome, this site rules!

Everyone usually says that when you start interaction you have to make sure to go out with her as soon as possible.

Go up to her and get together after school

You might still have a chance. You never know untill you try:)

Good luck, man
 

eaglez1177

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jj707 said:
Hey guys this is my first post. i decided to post here because i have a problem and im quite unexperienced in the field of relationships and women in general, Someone please set me straight

Here's my story,

there's this girl named Linda in my Math class, I've known her since august, but I really started talking to her in November/December, anyway she was always touching my shoulder and thigh to get my attention, even though i used to sit right next to her.

Anyway time passed and when the new semester arrived, My whole math class had to switch teachers. I no longer sat next to her. We stopped talking and things died down.

Then on Valentines days she received a rose, and she thought i sent it, needless to say she was all over me for about a week, her friend even told me that Linda liked me, and she would touch my arm and get all giggly when i worked with her:
I didn't do anything about it
Now its a month after that happened, and things died down once again
Still when i talk to her i make her laugh and she still touches my shoulder and thigh for attention when im close to her.

The reason i didnt do anything was because i didnt have feeling for her before but during the winter break i had time to think and i realized how much i liked talking to her and making her laugh.
I've never talked to her outside of class ( yea i know)

Sorry for the long read, anyway what do i do now?do i talk to her more often?
ask her to hang out sometime? or did i Screw myself, Someone please set me straight.
If shes still giving you IOIs, then I would definitely go for it. And yea just talk to her more often and ask her to hang out. Make sure you hang out with her VERY soon though, because she wont be interested in you forever.
 
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