"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did I turn her down?

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Okay been gaming some chick for a while, I have a gf she has a bf. Long story short, were out on a work night out, both end up sleeping at a mutual friends house, in the same bed. Im touching her ass stuff like that, & shes fine with it. A couple of times she puts her lips up close to mine, says 'you want to kiss me dont you' in a teasing way. Tempted to go for it, I stop myself because were both drunk and i knew i might regret it & I thought she was joking at the time. Now im thinking maybe she did want to kiss me & shes pissed I didnt go for it :confused: . Does this sound like I turned her down to you guys?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You should've kissed her ..... WhT do you mean by you were "gaming" some chick? How were u gaming her? What did u do to game her?
 
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I know I should have kissed her, I would have usually. In an intoxicated state I thought she was just teasing me. By gaming I mean flirting lots, to the point that we both know we like each other. Anyway the day after we text each other & for the first time she didn't text back for no reason. I think she thinks I'm messing with her. Can I recover this situation?
 
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