"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did I turn her down?

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acerazor1

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Okay been gaming some chick for a while, I have a gf she has a bf. Long story short, were out on a work night out, both end up sleeping at a mutual friends house, in the same bed. Im touching her ass stuff like that, & shes fine with it. A couple of times she puts her lips up close to mine, says 'you want to kiss me dont you' in a teasing way. Tempted to go for it, I stop myself because were both drunk and i knew i might regret it & I thought she was joking at the time. Now im thinking maybe she did want to kiss me & shes pissed I didnt go for it :confused: . Does this sound like I turned her down to you guys?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You should've kissed her ..... WhT do you mean by you were "gaming" some chick? How were u gaming her? What did u do to game her?
 
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I know I should have kissed her, I would have usually. In an intoxicated state I thought she was just teasing me. By gaming I mean flirting lots, to the point that we both know we like each other. Anyway the day after we text each other & for the first time she didn't text back for no reason. I think she thinks I'm messing with her. Can I recover this situation?
 
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