Did i spend too much?

[onyx]

give her your **** she'll think thats great

 

[typical]

God bro, stop thinking about how much you spent and focus on spending the day with the girl.

I got my girl a bag of choc kisses and a cute cuddly bear that has a heart on it. We met up at the local mall at around midday and spent the whole afternoon in a nearby park just chilling out.

Stop the fancy sh!t and next year bring it back down to earth, instead of spending a huge amount in gifts spend a huge amount in time.

 

[gherald]

discard the flower...

discard the card...

that's it...

have a dinner at ur place...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

prepare to be very disappointed at the present she got you.

:crackup: Can we say PEZ dispenser? But seriously, the DVD box set is a good idea but only if you guys make it to Christmas. The rainbow cookies would have been more than enough.

 

[G-Theory]

Well actually now im thinking bout gettin her just one red rose.

One single red rose is a little cheese. I don't know if you are into the "significance of flowers" but I thought everyone knew that a single rose meant "I love you". Let's face it, those three words are the last thing you wan to tell a brawd.

There was another thread started earlier that gave some decent advice check it out.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=118337

Me personally, I'm a cheap ass and the only way I would spend more than $20 bucks on a brawd is if she was fun in bed, then I'd get her a toy (but I'd end up keeping it because then you get more out of it; she thinks it's "her v-day gift" and you get to use it on the other women your dating. It's win/win.

 

[Nighthawk]

Yes you did. Forget ALL the flowers, and get her hint that she doesn't want you to smother her with gifts. It looks needy, trust us.

 

[md3sign]

As I mentioned earlier, I decided to leave out flowers altogether this year, with the exception of a tulip pot for my mom. They're way too expensive, way too cliche, they're gone in a few days, and they're pretty pointless IMO. You can get a badass lookin plush teddy bear for $5 and you get bet your ass it'll stick around.

So yes, you spent too much. It's ok I've been there too.

 

[Desdinova]

Dude, I've been with my woman for 3 years, and I took her out for dinner which cost $30 for the both of us. You've been with her for less than 3 months and you're willing to spend between $50 and $100 on her.

She probably got you a card and a keychain.

 

[Kiko-]

Jesus Christ dude, not even my dad got my mom so much and theyve been married for 17 years. He got a her a ****ing pillow.

Now, what you did was give her incentive to suck up even more, and i bet right now, her birthday is a day she is REALLY looking forward to.

Straighten up, you made a mistake, you showed a weakness. The error has been done, all thats left is for you to learn from it. She is leeching off you, in the manner that you bought her 90832498390 things and she is gonna give you a lame-ass card with some cliche poem inside. Guaranteed.

NO FLOWERS either. Over used.

Just enjoy what is left from it..


Laterz, Kiko

 

[Kev07]

take this as a lesson, i had to learn the hard way.

never EVER give any hints about what you are getting for someone(friend girl whatever, birthday WHATEVER) don't even mention a gift.

on a side note, my friend got an interesting vday gift from his gf today.

his girlfriend sent him on a mad scavenger hunt, where he had to find out who some people were, then telling them something to get a clue. the clue then leads you to the next person etc.

I was following him around this whole time, i thought this was very interesting. well not to my surprise, the final clue lead to her and she had some gifts (clothes and stuff) on her bed. Let's just say i left right when i got in the room.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...
She probably got you a card and a keychain.

A PEZ keychain though...