Did I sleep with an ugly chic?

[Warrior74]

So I've been seeing this 23 year old British girl who is in the states visiting. Red head, blue eyes, very cute, very sweet and nice. Long story short, we are laying in bed and she tells me she used to be frightfully ugly and had low self esteem. Of course I didn't believe her. So she pulls out one of her old IDs and shows me her picture. She was completely a different person. An uglier person. She went from unfvckable to cute girlfriend material. Mind you has a great body, nice ass and perky little tits, average bj skills, adventurous in bed. She tells me she had her nose, cheeks, jaw,chin and a tummy tuck done. She's getting new tits in a few months.

Then she tells me she could have never gotten a guy like back home as everyone knows what she looked like before. WTF? I felt totally baited and switched. The fleeting thought of what our kids would look like flashed through my mind which I instantly squashed as it was completely irrational. I still haven't made up my mind about seeing her again later this week.

How would you guys feel in this situation?

 

[5string]

Tough one. When you mentioned having kids with her and what they would look like, it gave me the chills. Bait and switch? Sure sounds like it to me. Lots of gals that have alot of that kind of surgery are more prone to have personality disorders. How long have you been seeing her? If not long, her "true side" will eventually show it's face and you'll know what you are really dealing with. Be ever aware. Give this one some time brother. P.S.....I don't think you are being irrational in your thinking by any means.

 

[Kailex]

So I've been seeing this 23 year old British girl who is in the states visiting.

The fleeting thought of what our kids would look like flashed through my mind which I instantly squashed as it was completely irrational. I still haven't made up my mind about seeing her again later this week.

How would you guys feel in this situation?

She's only visiting.
You're not getting married with her, hopefully...

Forget what she used to look like, if she looks good now while doing her O face, it shouldn't matter.

But definitely only as a FB situation.

It's pretty alarming that she would show you a picture while in bed though, as if to say: HA! See I can get any guy I want now after a few corrective surgeries.

Kinda troubling.

 

[Warrior74]

Yah. its just a spring fling...but troubling indeed. It was just a weird thought that went through my head. I can only imagine what her future husband will think.

 

[sodbuster]

HE may not know until the ugly kids pop out

 

[jophil28]

Yah. its just a spring fling...but troubling indeed. It was just a weird thought that went through my head. I can only imagine what her future husband will think.

When does her visa expire ?

 

[ChalengeGuyFan]

Wow, Warrior, you are so stupid!
I thought you were not part of the sheep crowd who disqualifies a person just because at some time in the past there was something wrong with him or her.

Just like a loser man can become a great figure, so can an ugly/stupid girl become girlfriend material, even if it implies having surgeries.
Moreover, there are billions of proofs that a hot/ugly mom does not necessarily produce a hot/ugly offspring.

Right now I wonder why the Mature forum was ever created; this topic alone shows that a 30-something man can have just as stupid thinking as a 16 year old.

Age is a freaking useless number.

 

[DJDamage]

That sort of reminds me of this girl I was once interested in until someone posted a photo of her on Facebook from 3 years ago where back then she was morbidly obese. Although I command her for losing all that weight (she had to have lost over 100 lbs) and now looking good, I just lost most of my desire to hook up with her after seeing that photo.

I guess it goes both ways which is why I don't show any chick my painful teen years and early 20's where I was a skinny AFC looking runt.

 

[Tiguere]

Look like you slept with a tranny(post-op). HA HA !!

 

[DJDamage]

Wow, Warrior, you are so stupid!
I thought you were not part of the sheep crowd who disqualifies a person just because at some time in the past there was something wrong with him or her.

I don't believe that this decision is based on a conscious thinking but rather about unsconscious thinking relating to desire. Most of our desires do not only come from visual stimulation but also mental and physical stimulations. in essence SHE WAS THE ONE WHO WAS AT FAULT FOR SHOWING HIM HER PREVIOUS SELF thus disqualifing herself to him for ADMITTING TO FAKING what he thought was her NATURAL BEAUTY.

This is equivelent to watching your girlfriend take a sh1t and smelling it. After a while you are going to run away.

 

[jophil28]

She went from unfvckable to cute girlfriend material. Mind you has a great body, nice ass and perky little tits, average bj skills, adventurous in bed. She tells me she had her nose, cheeks, jaw,chin and a tummy tuck done. She's getting new tits in a few months.

Congrats to her- so it's not true that you can't polish a tUrd ?

 

[DangNammit]

Look on the bright side... she didn't say anything about having her penis removed...

 

[Desdinova]

I've actually been there. I dated a chick who had her face reconstructed. She showed me an old pic, and yeah, she looked like she could swallow her nose. She opened her mouth and showed me her gums. You'd think it was a goddam robot under all that skin because her jaw and gums were made of steel. My brother warned me to never get a bl0wjob from her since it would be like putting my d1ck through a meat slicer.

Did I feel baited? Hell no. She was good looking now, great in bed, and was a cool gal and that's all that mattered to me.

 

[Warrior74]

Wow, Warrior, you are so stupid!
I thought you were not part of the sheep crowd who disqualifies a person just because at some time in the past there was something wrong with him or her.

Just like a loser man can become a great figure, so can an ugly/stupid girl become girlfriend material, even if it implies having surgeries.
Moreover, there are billions of proofs that a hot/ugly mom does not necessarily produce a hot/ugly offspring.

Right now I wonder why the Mature forum was ever created; this topic alone shows that a 30-something man can have just as stupid thinking as a 16 year old.

Age is a freaking useless number.

LOL glad to see I made an impression on you. I do disqualify based on peoples past. The past and their present actions are all you have to go on. If she told me she was a former crack head, I would judge based on that. If she told me she was a former fat girl I would judge based on that. If she told me she once cut off a man's penis I would totally judge based on that. Would I disqualify, maybe (definitely on the penis cutting thing). Maybe not. Like I said, I haven't made a decision yet. Why? Because I do have some options. Only a couple, but some. I don't have to hang out with her, I can call someone else.

Sounds like you've been judged in the past and are lashing out about. Tough tits pal. That's life.

Honestly. I don't show chics pics of when I was 300lbs. Why would I? I want them to know me for who I am now. She raised all sorts of questions by her behavior and I wanted to throw it out there and get some opinions, so thanks! I'm glad for all of the feedback I got in this thread.

 

[Jitterbug]

Well, you can learn from women and Not Count her.

 

[wait_out]

When does Kramer make his entrance in this thread

 

[Amazing]

I've been with a couple of ex-fat girls, and I didn't really care. I don't know if I would date them given the baggage but for flings it was fine. I wouldn't care if she was ugly before, But I bet anything i'd be trying to find that ugliness in her new face just because I am retarded like that.

No matter how hot a girl is after I sleep with her she becomes normal (cute), then slowly I'll find something that is off, and she drops further. She can still look hot once in awhile, if I like her I will overlook a lot.

 

[Bluntmaster]

Who the F?CK cares for real?

So she was ugly 10 years ago, was your ego hurt so much you had to post?

I let a fat chic suck my d!ck last week for an hour because I just broke up with my girlfriend.

Get over it.

 

[squirrels]

Redheads are typically ugly/fat back in grade-school. Then sometime in their 20s, they just EXPLODE with sexy. It's awesome because they never bothered to develop that, "I'm hot so I can afford to be a b!tch" mentality all the cute girls developed...and now all of a sudden what they wanted so bad before (d!ck) is being thrown at them. That's why gingers are thought to be "freaks".

Don't worry about what your kids are gonna look like. Use a damned condom and enjoy yourself. LOL

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Maybe there's a reason some people use this forum so much...

Threads like this speak a lot about how you value you people.

Sucks for you man.