"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Did i screw it up with all three babes?

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i went to amusement park with three babes yesterday, there was two HB6-7 and a HB8-9, one of the HB7 invited me when i was tesaing her about she has to buy me a latte and she suggested me coming with them to the amusement park so she can buy it for me

the day was fun, i mostly teased the HB7 since i know her longer and we flirted quite a lot before, the second HB7 and the HB8-9 were just too quiet and silent for my taste, but i did manage to have some casual and friendly conversations with the 9, and i think she finds me comfortable and friendly, but probably not attractive. I also tesed the second HB7 somewhat and the result was decent but wasn't spectacular, but she wasn't the one i was going for anyways

overal in the day i was casual, talkative, friendly and fun, but there were often problems of them not hearing me clearly when i speak coz i speak too fast or too slurry, not sure but i think it may affect how they view me as cool and confident and such

today i went back home and none of the two girls added me in msn or anything, the HB7 that invited me to disneyland didn't even invite me to the halloween party she is going to tonight, although she didn't invite the two girls that went with us to disney as well, or maybe it wasn't her party and she has no say who she can bring, or she just doens't find me fun anymore after yesterday

so did i screw it up?
 

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Originally posted by ICaughtFire

so did i screw it up?
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Who cares?

You won't be licking their boots to get her/them to go out with you again right?
So... NEXT her/them, until further notice.

Oh, and you talk too fast and/or slurry. Stop worrying so much. Go out with more chicks.
 
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u screwed up coz u didnt choose exactly one of em. they thought u cant decide so ur lame.
 
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You are doing what I do best - Overthinking.

Don't look at the situation on a daily basis. Look at it on a weekly one. If you do that the MSN screen name and not getting invited to the party are not important. Wait a few days and ask her out.

If you search my name you will see how bad off I used to be. I wanted to rush things. Just let it happen.

Celadus
 
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