"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did i screw it up with all three babes?

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i went to amusement park with three babes yesterday, there was two HB6-7 and a HB8-9, one of the HB7 invited me when i was tesaing her about she has to buy me a latte and she suggested me coming with them to the amusement park so she can buy it for me

the day was fun, i mostly teased the HB7 since i know her longer and we flirted quite a lot before, the second HB7 and the HB8-9 were just too quiet and silent for my taste, but i did manage to have some casual and friendly conversations with the 9, and i think she finds me comfortable and friendly, but probably not attractive. I also tesed the second HB7 somewhat and the result was decent but wasn't spectacular, but she wasn't the one i was going for anyways

overal in the day i was casual, talkative, friendly and fun, but there were often problems of them not hearing me clearly when i speak coz i speak too fast or too slurry, not sure but i think it may affect how they view me as cool and confident and such

today i went back home and none of the two girls added me in msn or anything, the HB7 that invited me to disneyland didn't even invite me to the halloween party she is going to tonight, although she didn't invite the two girls that went with us to disney as well, or maybe it wasn't her party and she has no say who she can bring, or she just doens't find me fun anymore after yesterday

so did i screw it up?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by ICaughtFire

so did i screw it up?
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Who cares?

You won't be licking their boots to get her/them to go out with you again right?
So... NEXT her/them, until further notice.

Oh, and you talk too fast and/or slurry. Stop worrying so much. Go out with more chicks.
 
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u screwed up coz u didnt choose exactly one of em. they thought u cant decide so ur lame.
 
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You are doing what I do best - Overthinking.

Don't look at the situation on a daily basis. Look at it on a weekly one. If you do that the MSN screen name and not getting invited to the party are not important. Wait a few days and ask her out.

If you search my name you will see how bad off I used to be. I wanted to rush things. Just let it happen.

Celadus
 
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